Elite 11+ Part 75

Sunshinemummy

elliemoo wrote: »

Goodnight all. Its just one of those nights when something completely unexpected makes you think about what is going on close and near.

I hope anyone hearing the bark of the big black dog has somewhere, someone or something to help them through this night into the new day ahead.

Be kind.

It is so sad, and highlights the importance of being kind and aware of others as the black dog can be with anyone...normally the people that we would never consider.

She is now at peace with whatever was tormenting her, her pain has ended whilst her family's has just begun. My thoughts are with them x

:A

Savvybuyer

tweets wrote: »

Yes a little girl.

:A RIP Melody :A

Oh how sad for the family. And sad for people on here too.:(

There's nothing I can say...

I feel... normal:o, except that I start reading people's posts and feeling a bit sad (not that I should not feel that way). I'm sure I've had PMs from her in the past and I "ought" to feel feel worse, except that I think it will hit me later and different people deal with things differently. It does bring to light the issue of depression - me and someone else struggles with that in our home - there are times I get concerned about the other person when they just go out - though, touch wood, they always come back. I felt they were a bit down and might, in a minute of madness, 'do something stupid' - I can't always catch them before they go out:( but fortunately I have not had any problems to date - I bet if anything were to happen, they'd have gone out smiling and seemingly happy and then never return:(:(, I sincerely hope not although problem is you just never can tell and depression can occur suddenly at times. I think best people can do, unfortunately:(, is just try and look out for people but it's difficult as there's no way to prevent everything - for myself, I've been there and know what it's like, from my own perspective, I think, sadly, once you are there (once you have had the depression), it's always there, underlying underneath things, and if you have a moment where you feel a bit down, you feel really down - fortunately many of us can then get to a stage where the amount of time between each period of down increases but then you can have moments where it just comes back - it's difficult and all that can be done is lots of love to the people struggling with it. Hard to believe that people can be seemingly so happy and then just feel really down, and worse, but it does sometimes go from one extreme to the other - in fact, and I'm out of my depth and know nothing about this:o:o, but some things are marked by extremes in mood.

I'm sorry if I've said something that people don't want to hear. It's just a tragic situation:(.

Sunshinemummy

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RIP Princess Melody ... :A

Such sad, sad news. No words to say, except my deepest condolences to her family - for them the pain has only just started

Puts all our problems into perspective ...

David.

ilovegreatdanes wrote: »

Am off to bed but just read of sad loss of princessmelody.i cant imagine what her family is going through.my thoughts are with them.
From personal experience I know what depression can do .enough said.
god bless.take care everyone.xx

Savvybuyer wrote: »

Oh how sad for the family. And sad for people on here too.:(

There's nothing I can say...

I feel... normal:o, except that I start reading people's posts and feeling a bit sad (not that I should not feel that way). I'm sure I've had PMs from her in the past and I "ought" to feel feel worse, except that I think it will hit me later and different people deal with things differently. It does bring to light the issue of depression - me and someone else struggles with that in our home - there are times I get concerned about the other person when they just go out - though, touch wood, they always come back. I felt they were a bit down and might, in a minute of madness, 'do something stupid' - I can't always catch them before they go out:( but fortunately I have not had any problems to date - I bet if anything were to happen, they'd have gone out smiling and seemingly happy and then never return:(:(, I sincerely hope not although problem is you just never can tell and depression can occur suddenly at times. I think best people can do, unfortunately:(, is just try and look out for people but it's difficult as there's no way to prevent everything - for myself, I've been there and know what it's like, from my own perspective, I think, sadly, once you are there (once you have had the depression), it's always there, underlying underneath things, and if you have a moment where you feel a bit down, you feel really down - fortunately many of us can then get to a stage where the amount of time between each period of down increases but then you can have moments where it just comes back - it's difficult and all that can be done is lots of love to the people struggling with it. Hard to believe that people can be seemingly so happy and then just feel really down, and worse, but it does sometimes go from one extreme to the other - in fact, and I'm out of my depth and know nothing about this:o:o, but some things are marked by extremes in mood.

I'm sorry if I've said something that people don't want to hear. It's just a tragic situation:(.

Have a :grouphug:
Left or right savvy

ilovegreatdanes

I cant post a link but I love this song....and has helped me in the past.its from city of angels and called ...in the arms of the angels, sung best by sara lauchlan, I think.maybe someone could post a link.thanks.

David.

ilovegreatdanes wrote: »

I cant post a link but I love this song....and has helped me in the past.its from city of angels and called ...in the arms of the angels, sung best by sara lauchlan, I think.maybe someone could post a link.thanks.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i1GmxMTwUgs Maybe

lookinforabargain

ilovegreatdanes wrote: »

I cant post a link but I love this song....and has helped me in the past.its from city of angels and called ...in the arms of the angels, sung best by sara lauchlan, I think.maybe someone could post a link.thanks.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1SiylvmFI_8

Hope that's the right one x

HILLBERN

cjj wrote: »

Sending you some big hugs HILLBERN. Your dd is lucky to have you to care for her. Hope your ok my lovely xx

yes I am lucky and thanks for the hugs cjj- but oh how sad its tragic I know ive been there (well nearly) with DD but I just feel for her family I know how s..t I feel and I didn't know her, and im sure by seeing all the posts everyone feels the same.

purpledonkey

ilovegreatdanes wrote: »

I cant post a link but I love this song....and has helped me in the past.its from city of angels and called ...in the arms of the angels, sung best by sara lauchlan, I think.maybe someone could post a link.thanks.

Sarah McLachlan - Angel. Beautiful album.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ozKsQnRHb-c