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Paternity leave - what do you think?

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  • Numpty69
    Numpty69 Posts: 14 Forumite
    Clearly did labour no good in the end!!! I;m sure small businesses are thankful
  • 74jax
    74jax Posts: 7,930 Forumite
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    Just the same for the mum too.

    Fair.
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  • silvercar
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    It is possible for twins to have different dads. That would ensure that each get paternity leave:

    http://uk.businessinsider.com/twins-with-two-different-fathers-2015-5?r=US
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  • Bluemeanie_2
    Bluemeanie_2 Posts: 1,076 Forumite
    shiny76 wrote: »
    How does the maternity/paternity rights match up with sexual equality?

    Would be great for some inidividuals if companies offered the same extended rights to fathers as they do to mothers. However, I imagine if this was challenged then most companies would probably reduce mothers entitlement rather than extend the fathers.

    To quote I think it's Aristotle "you can be only treat things equally insofar as they are equal."
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  • Gigglepig
    Gigglepig Posts: 1,270 Forumite
    Bluemeanie wrote: »
    To quote I think it's Aristotle "you can be only treat things equally insofar as they are equal."

    Some countries do actually treat mothers and fathers/partner the same and offer enhanced pay while on leave for both.
  • ab1982
    ab1982 Posts: 431 Forumite
    I think Paternity takes the p**s. I certainly cant afford two weeks on wages of £140 with a newborn baby and mother to support, cant see that many people could afford it unless independently wealthy or have a big savings pot.

    If it we're £240 would make it more likely to be able to have a week or so but still its such a financially difficult time that we need every penny.
  • 74jax
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    ab1982 wrote: »
    I think Paternity takes the p**s. I certainly cant afford two weeks on wages of £140 with a newborn baby and mother to support, cant see that many people could afford it unless independently wealthy or have a big savings pot.

    If it we're £240 would make it more likely to be able to have a week or so but still its such a financially difficult time that we need every penny.

    So don't take it? it's not forced?
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  • ab1982
    ab1982 Posts: 431 Forumite
    74jax wrote: »
    So don't take it? it's not forced?

    Ok, thanks for advice.
  • ViolaLass
    ViolaLass Posts: 5,764 Forumite
    ab1982 wrote: »
    I think Paternity takes the p**s. I certainly cant afford two weeks on wages of £140 with a newborn baby and mother to support, cant see that many people could afford it unless independently wealthy or have a big savings pot.

    If it we're £240 would make it more likely to be able to have a week or so but still its such a financially difficult time that we need every penny.

    A newborn and mother won't need much financially, mother will presumably have her maternity pay to cover her salary so can't you use the 9 months or so warning of the event to save to cover the shortfall? The difference is unlikely to be more than a few hundred pounds so you don't need to be "independently wealthy or have a big savings pot".
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