Advice needed over aggressive buyer

Pyjamas

moneyistooshorttomention wrote: »

Not long now. Keep your pecker up and I'm pleased to see you followed my advice of "Do NOT have any further communication with him". I am convinced that is the best thing to do.

You were wise to just drive straight off to your mothers place.

Just keep in mind a list of places you can go, if need be, whilst you wait for this to be over (through from coffeeshops for a cup of coffee whilst you wait it out for him to go away again to parents/good friends places).

Have in mind somewhere you can stay overnight if need be.

Stay well away from him.

Thanks I will, its just so hard with the baby it was his bedtime and he was already over tired as I have been at work today. It had been a really long day and I am just emotionally defeated by it all. I really appreciate the support.

moneyistooshorttomention

This too shall pass.

He will soon be out of your life.

m0bov

Ask your neighbours to call 101 if they see him outside, or ask them to txt you.

Pyjamas

m0bov wrote: »

Ask your neighbours to call 101 if they see him outside, or ask them to txt you.

I have been thinking about how to deal with the neighbours. We are chatty and I enjoy doorstep chit chat with them. but we do not socialise beyond that if you know what I mean and they are about to be his neighbour so I don't want to get into a he said she said situation. He has been in to their house tonight and said god knows what, I do not care in the slightest. But, I do not want to poison them against him etc as they will have to live next door to him and we will be long gone so will have nothing to gain from stirring up a load of bad feeling. I think I will just say it has been awful and I won't bore them with it.

phoebe1989seb

Sorry to hear he is still hounding you Pyjamas

Keep your chin up - as others posters have said it's not long to go now and you'll be out of there and shot of him....in the meantime don't hesitate to call the police if he appears unexpectedly again.

{{{hugs}}}

AMILLIONDOLLARS

Pyjamas wrote: »

I have been thinking about how to deal with the neighbours. We are chatty and I enjoy doorstep chit chat with them. but we do not socialise beyond that if you know what I mean and they are about to be his neighbour so I don't want to get into a he said she said situation. He has been in to their house tonight and said god knows what, I do not care in the slightest. But, I do not want to poison them against him etc as they will have to live next door to him and we will be long gone so will have nothing to gain from stirring up a load of bad feeling. I think I will just say it has been awful and I won't bore them with it.

I don't think you need to worry about 'poisoning them' after his conversation with them, I can only assume that your neighbours will now have an inkling on what their new neighbour will be like, carry on as normal as you can, matters will resolve themselves.

AMD

RuthnJasper

Pyjamas - are you ok? I really and truly hope that things are getting better for you. NONE of what happened is your fault.


Keep smiling sweetie. x

rosie383

I was wondering too. Come on hun, let us know how you are. Even if all we can give is virtual support, I suppose even that does help.

Jhoney_2

Is there anyone who could stay with you for a while, a few friends or a sibling a few nights each?

Not long now, but it would be great if a big burly face greeted him on the doorstep.

PS I think you should let your neighbours know his behaviour is unwelcome as they would obviously be less accommodating of him thean at present. They could also offer you some support perhaps or as a witness?

moneyistooshorttomention

I've been wondering how things are going too and keeping fingers crossed. According to my calculations, then I'm guessing Completion will be happening some time this week??