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lostinrates

Pyxis wrote: »

Noooooooooo! They're in that lovely, warm, snuggled-in state, where you're beautifully comfortable and don't want to move or talk, just comf! :beer:

This!

Does any one else have dreams where they continue with normal daily life but in bed? I've had dream university lectures .....in bed, floated through dream supermarkets in warm snuggly dream bed, been to work in a warm, clean beautiful bed.

Disconcertingly the bed looks like a hospital bed, but I suppose that's to help it be very mobile. It has nice bedding though.

Pyxis

Gosh! LIR, that sounds blissful!

I virtually live in my bed these days! I find it more comfortable than my living room, especially in winter, when I can watch TV, surf t'internet, do crosswords and even write the odd letter etc. all from my lovely, warm, comfy bed, with a hottie on my feet!

Like now! I am up, washed and dressed, but back in bed doing this, with a hottie on my feet, another hour's bliss before I go to Zumba etc!

tea_lover

A Team Cry sounds like a good plan, could do with a good wail today. Hope you got some sleep WaS and are feeling a bit more connected today x.

I lived in a flat once where I pretty much stayed in bed the whole time, it was lovely in a way (in other ways not so much, as I was v depressed and v alone at the time - but the bed part was nice). When I finally packed up to move I realised I hadn't even been in the living room for months.

Pyxis

When we're done crying, we can do this.........

Weeeeeeeeeeeeeee! :T :j :rotfl:

jobbingmusician

Big comfy warm hugs to WaS. You are not on your own, you are part of this very special community. We love you to bits and can accept your anger too, even when you can't - it's not a bad thing and this, too, will pass - you'll feel better soon and when you are ready, there are all sorts of nice things to look forward to.

LostSoulForever

Pyxis wrote: »

When we're done crying, we can do this.........

Weeeeeeeeeeeeeee! :T :j :rotfl:

Have you found a new toy ?

codemonkey

Oh I love my bed. We got a new one last year which is so comfy. We have an electric blanket (I've officially turned into my parents) so its always cozy and we have a tv and satellite tv in there too so its like a little den.

Dumbass dog hurt his paw this morning because the council have gone a bit OTT with the gritting so I had to wash his wee paws before I left for work. That didn't go down well. Honestly, that dog will plunge into a river in the depths of winter but he will not put his foot in a bowl of tepid water.

tea_lover

I feel very blue today
Think it's sinking in that this is really happening, OH and I really are going to split up. I should probably stop calling him that, but ex seems so horribly final.

It's all very amicable so far. We sat in bed last night (no funny business, none of that for ages, that's part of the problem!) having a polite conversation about the logistics of splitting furniture etc.

I know this is probably for the best, I know that we can't go on like this. I know (although this one is more buried in my head) that we'll both be happier in the long run. But it's breaking my heart. I know I've whinged about him on here but he really was/is the love of my life. We've been together nearly a decade, I don't know who I am without him. I can't get my head around the fact that he just won't be there anymore.

Can't stop crying today. Am sitting at my desk with tears rolling down my face, I never do this! Have stoically sat here dry-eyed through bereavement, miscarriage, redundancy... but this has tipped me over the edge.

whitewing

I hope your tears are cleansing, everybody, and that a glimmer of hope sparks in each of you later.

oystercatcher

Hello again,
I've been lurking but not up to posting for ages, is nice to see lots of new arrivals and the duvet fort is a wonderful idea. If I bring my dogs in all biscuits will need to be in tins though otherwise they will be snarfled !

Last time I posted I was trying new anti-D's, well they didn't do much except cause side effects. GP increased them a couple of weeks ago and the side effects increased, making me even more miserable. So yesterday I didn't take it and already my mood is lifting...so strange, maybe I have a different type of metabolism .

I'm really not sure whether to see the GP again, he wasn't very sympathetic and this is now the fifth type of anti-D I have tried over the years that hasn't worked. .... no recount...sixth type !!

Anyway, have a very busy weekend beginning early tomorrow...so don't worry if I'm not back. I must go and pack etc..