OH slagging me of in texts

JoW123

Soleil_lune wrote: »

A colleague of my OH rambles on about her husband not being able to go longer than 5 minutes, and about him not being able to make her pregnant.

That's just horrible!! It amazes me how much some of my colleagues share with me too sometimes. I wouldn't dream of telling anyone most of it in their position. I guess people just have different opinions of what is acceptable.

marisco_2

DUTR wrote: »

I hope that extends to the OP snooping on her partner's phone.

Absolutely yes. Respect is a two way thing. It is an indication of how badly disconnected they are, and of how much communication has broken down between them, that she felt the need to invade his privacy and do that.

Soleil_lune

JoW123 wrote: »

That's just horrible!! It amazes me how much some of my colleagues share with me too sometimes. I wouldn't dream of telling anyone most of it in their position. I guess people just have different opinions of what is acceptable.

I know!!!

And she is not the first I have heard discuss extremely personal stuff like this. It's moreso women banging on about their husbands or partners, rather than men sharing personal stuff about their wives/partners.