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  • mary_hinge
    mary_hinge Posts: 1,585 Forumite
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    Does Mr Lucky have a CEA card? Our local cinema will only allow carer discount now with a card. Thankfully we have always had one but Mr H saw a number of people flustering around with dla letters and being turned down.

    Sometimes we all just need a day at home, we've needed a lot more of these days recently, well replace we've with Mr H :o the rest of us enjoy the odd day home then cabin fever sets in :cool:

    Hope you are being kind to yourself

    Mrs H x
    Living in a superhero induced haze :A:A
    "You did good Kidda!" :D
  • Hi Mrs H!

    We do have a CEA card. Worth it’s weight in gold for £6 per year! Wouldn’t be without it.

    Today we took DS2 and his little mate trampolining. Moody teen didn’t want to come. The trampoline park had a half price offer on, so it was £4 each which isn’t too bad. DH and I just watched.

    Cashed out for another £5 Amazon voucher with Swagbucks :T. That’s £45 on there so far in 2019 which is quite good considering I don’t put that much effort in :o.
    Debts @ LBM £23,729.31. Debts @ 08/04/2016 £0 :j
    Best win so far - holiday to Florida
  • HairyHandofDartmoor
    HairyHandofDartmoor Posts: 13,960 Forumite
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    Not insensitive at all.
    I worked on a Saturday 4-7pm. I had to have everything organised before I left for work in terms of what the boys would have for tea/need while I was out. MiL came round ‘to babysit’ while I was out which DH and the boys weren’t overly keen on, and I always felt the need to spend the day tidying before she came. More often than not, DS2 had some party or other to attend on a Saturday which made it more difficult to organise, and DH usually worked himself into a flap about his Mum coming. MiL then started going out quite a bit on a Saturday night so couldn’t come round, which pleased DH but made me very nervous leaving them all (DH had a couple of seizures that the boys had to deal with alone, and I worried that it was the stress of ‘being in charge that attributed to them. DS1 told me he didn’t want the responsibility if MiL couldn’t come round :(). On top of that, as much as I enjoyed the banter with the girls, I worked on the busiest shift and my feet literally didn’t touch the floor. Not good for my foot problem (plantar fasciitis) and it was getting really bad to the point where I could hardly walk. More and more people left the department without being replaced, and I ended up doing the work of 3 or 4 people. I had countless holiday requests refused as there was no one else, and the whole thing became more stress than benefit. I also felt that I was doing ‘top up shops’ after work that I probably would have managed without had I not been there anyway, so I was spending as much as I earned sometimes :eek:.

    I should probably look for something else, perhaps while the boys are in school, but anything I earn over £20 will be taken back off me, so I need to find something suitable Xx

    I can see why you stopped working, that sounds really stressful :eek:.

    Glad you've been to the cinema, those free tickets were a good prize :).
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • Won a £5 voucher on GFK survey site, so now have £50 in Amazon account :j. Also sold DS2’s bike today for £30 :T. Feeling ever so slightly more in control.

    STILL no news on the competition (but don’t tell SA that I’m getting impatient again :rotfl:).
    Debts @ LBM £23,729.31. Debts @ 08/04/2016 £0 :j
    Best win so far - holiday to Florida
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,697 Ambassador
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    Good news on Amazon & the bike sale :) xx
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
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  • Sun_Addict
    Sun_Addict Posts: 24,118 Forumite
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    I saw that :rotfl: They're taking their time though :)

    Good news on Amazon account and bike sale :)
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • HairyHandofDartmoor
    HairyHandofDartmoor Posts: 13,960 Forumite
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    Well done on selling DS's bike and the Amazon voucher :).
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • Today has been a NSD :j.

    Met my sister for lunch and she paid :A. Had the most amazing Greek Haloumi wrap and I could happily go back and have another it was so tasty! She’d been having a clear out of clothes and shoes etc, so she’s given me 4 big black bags to go through. She says it’s up to me whether I keep or sell them :T.

    A year ago today we were on our way to Florida :( Xx
    Debts @ LBM £23,729.31. Debts @ 08/04/2016 £0 :j
    Best win so far - holiday to Florida
  • HairyHandofDartmoor
    HairyHandofDartmoor Posts: 13,960 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    You lunch sounds lovely, especially because it was free :).

    I hope you find some of your sister's clothes useful.
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,697 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Hope you like some of the clothes :) xx
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
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