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Baby steps to mortgage freedom for beanielou.

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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,235 Ambassador
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    Sun_Addict wrote: »
    I've had dealings with an unsympathetic vet who wanted to either operate at a cost of £1k or put my old cat to sleep when he was 15, as you know he lived to be 21 without the op and the "tumour" disappeared. A vet should be caring as a requirement of the role.

    A shame you had to decline the brunch, still pennies saved which is good.

    Just dire.
    This 'vet' was the most uncaring vet I have ever met.
    Mind you I think she was a tad taken aback to have 3 extra people at the second consulation with my mum.
    We were not going to just agree with her without some questions.
    How she thought it was ok to keep the cat all day & do nothing is beyond me.
    Luckily I had seem the cat the day before & while he was not at his best he most certainly not at deaths door :mad:
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    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Bubblesmum
    Bubblesmum Posts: 1,778 Forumite
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    Waving Beanie, :( to brunch but you are a :A and a good role model, Hope today has been relaxing x
    As a dear MSE friend says “keep plodding” or
    What does the saying say.... When life hands you lemons, make lemonade
    Or as my Mum would say, brush yourself down, tomorrow is another day or
    Fake it, to you Make It

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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,235 Ambassador
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    Bubblesmum wrote: »
    Waving Beanie, :( to brunch but you are a :A and a good role model, Hope today has been relaxing x

    It has, thanks :) x
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Glad you all stuck together for your Mum’s cat.

    Hope you are ok xx
    Debts @ LBM £23,729.31. Debts @ 08/04/2016 £0 :j
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,235 Ambassador
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    Glad you all stuck together for your Mum’s cat.

    Hope you are ok xx

    I am pretty washed out TBH.
    I am tired grumpy & in pain.
    I have a particularily busy week coming up if things dont go pear shaped.
    Not quite sure how I will maage TBH.

    Anyway. Accapuncture tomorrow .

    An important FB meeting tomorrow.

    Oh & what does one wear to a memorial service? :think:
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • beanielou wrote: »
    I am pretty washed out TBH.
    I am tired grumpy & in pain.
    I have a particularily busy week coming up if things dont go pear shaped.
    Not quite sure how I will maage TBH.

    Anyway. Accapuncture tomorrow .

    An important FB meeting tomorrow.

    Oh & what does one wear to a memorial service? :think:

    Sorry to hear you aren't feeling great :(.

    Personally I would wear something similar to a funeral. Maybe slightly less formal Xx
    Debts @ LBM £23,729.31. Debts @ 08/04/2016 £0 :j
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  • Sun_Addict
    Sun_Addict Posts: 24,274 Forumite
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    Agree with Lucky, something less formal. The fact that you’re there will
    mean far more than what you wear. For my dear mum’s funeral I wore a lilac skirt suit she had said she liked.
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,235 Ambassador
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    Thanks Lucky & SA :) xx
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Butti
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    Sun_Addict wrote: »
    Agree with Lucky, something less formal. The fact that you’re there will
    mean far more than what you wear. For my dear mum’s funeral I wore a lilac skirt suit she had said she liked.

    This is brilliant advice Beanie. Wear something that you think that person would have liked you to wear.
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,235 Ambassador
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    Butti wrote: »
    This is brilliant advice Beanie. Wear something that you think that person would have liked you to wear.

    Thanks Butti :)
    How are you?
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
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