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Baby steps to mortgage freedom for beanielou.
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Hi Beannie - I hope you are ok? I think you are doing the right thing going to see GP! I don't for one minute think you are giving in- aids are just that! Things to help you do what you want to do - not things to demonstrate weakness! I have a friend who has become very disabled very quickly - 2 years ago we were planning a long distance bike ride for a cancer charity and now she uses a mobility scooter constantly! For her, her enforced isolation was due to not being able to accept her limitations and use aids - as soon as she 'gave in' ( her words not mine) and started using her scooter her life changed - she's now far more independent and is having a life - it may be different from the one she imagined 2 years ago - but its so much more positive now she uses aids! Far from becoming more disabled - as she feared - she is much more able! Which psychologically has worked wonders!!!
I understand your circumstances may be very different - just trying to illustrate a positive story!
Keep plodding!!! - well done on energy switch!
Beanie, got this far in reading... And wanted to say, my life has Changed for the better when I gave in...it often goes tits up when I rebel rather than accepting the way it has to be ...... But I do struggle with the psychological journey of acceptance.As a dear MSE friend says “keep plodding” or
What does the saying say.... When life hands you lemons, make lemonade
Or as my Mum would say, brush yourself down, tomorrow is another day or
Fake it, to you Make It
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Me again - hugs for the new fall.
Hopefully falls clinic will offer practical and sensible advice/support
I know pacing has helped me a lot, and a least I love knitting, sewing and reading so when I stop I'm not bored.
The effect on my income is the :eek: :eek::o bit.As a dear MSE friend says “keep plodding” or
What does the saying say.... When life hands you lemons, make lemonade
Or as my Mum would say, brush yourself down, tomorrow is another day or
Fake it, to you Make It
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So another fall today.
Really really shoggled myself up & very winded.
Now been a bit sick so feel a bit better now.
Never a dull moment in beanie land that's for sure :eek:
Going out for lunch tomorrow so looking forward to a cheeky kir royale & some yummy food
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"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
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It's a bit crap Beanie but it could be worse.......I know this because my friend has been attacked by her daughter's dog and then found a mouse in her boot while she was driving. :eek:
I am fully expecting this 'attention seeking' behaviour to shortly result in you pulling a lorry driver.Debt LBM (08/09) £11,641. DEBT FREE APRIL 2021.
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:rotfl:It's a bit crap Beanie but it could be worse.......I know this because my friend has been attacked by her daughter's dog and then found a mouse in her boot while she was driving. :eek:
I am fully expecting this 'attention seeking' behaviour to shortly result in you pulling a lorry driver.
:rotfl:I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.1 -
:T :T
You'll be fine beanie...just take it easy when you can
And the rest of the time well, whoop it up MFiT-T4 Member No. 96 - 2022 is my MF goal
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yah for kir royal's & very yummy food.
Not too many couples so that was good.I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.1 -
Now in the 23's :j :j :j
Thank you all so much for all your support~~it means so much.
A good friend has just had their dog put down. She will be running over rainbow bridge now.I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.1 -
Hooray :beer::beer::j:j for the 23's
for Mr Doggy As a dear MSE friend says “keep plodding” or
What does the saying say.... When life hands you lemons, make lemonade
Or as my Mum would say, brush yourself down, tomorrow is another day or
Fake it, to you Make It
Please say hello my new diary: https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6578460/still-dancing-to-blow-the-debt-clouds-away1 -
Aww! So happy for the good news but so sad for the bad news too. X1
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