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Baby steps to mortgage freedom for beanielou.

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  • juliejim
    juliejim Posts: 7,944 Forumite
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    Oh dear beanielou - have a hug and an early night and hopefully tomorrow will be a better day.

    Jue
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  • Butti
    Butti Posts: 5,014 Forumite
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    beanielou wrote: »
    Have truly had day from hell.
    WW3 with my lodgers.
    I have given them marching orders.
    & have asked GF for her key.
    She was very very not nice.
    4 years yesterday since my dad died.
    Unfortunatly I owe DS money.

    Good. There's only so much anyone can take Beanie.
    Try not to dwell on this.
    Debt LBM (08/09) £11,641. DEBT FREE APRIL 2021.
    Diary 'Butti's journey : A matter of loaf or death'.
    Diary 2 'The whimsical tale of the Waterbed of Debt'
    48% off mortgage

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  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    edited 21 February 2016 at 11:32PM
    beanielou wrote: »
    Have truly had day from hell.

    :grouphug:
    beanielou wrote: »
    WW3 with my lodgers.
    I have given them marching orders.

    :T
    beanielou wrote: »
    & have asked GF for her key.
    She was very very not nice.

    Because she obviously thought by doing that, she would convince you that you were making some kind of mistake.

    Just remember in the days to come the mark of her.
    beanielou wrote: »
    4 years yesterday since my dad died.

    :grouphug: :grouphug:
    beanielou wrote: »
    Unfortunatly I owe DS money.

    These things are unfortunate, however you will feel the benefit of this in the days to come.
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
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  • Bubblesmum
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    Always been more of a paddington fan myself.

    Confession time me too and I had a cuddly Orinoco Womble
    As a dear MSE friend says “keep plodding” or
    What does the saying say.... When life hands you lemons, make lemonade
    Or as my Mum would say, brush yourself down, tomorrow is another day or
    Fake it, to you Make It

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  • Bubblesmum
    Bubblesmum Posts: 1,778 Forumite
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    And then I read your next post

    :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug:

    Thinking of you
    As a dear MSE friend says “keep plodding” or
    What does the saying say.... When life hands you lemons, make lemonade
    Or as my Mum would say, brush yourself down, tomorrow is another day or
    Fake it, to you Make It

    Please say hello my new diary: https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6578460/still-dancing-to-blow-the-debt-clouds-away
  • Sorry to hear you have had such a rubbish day. Positive thoughts that things will all turn out for the best as you deserve them to.

    (hugs) for your Dad's memorial, they are always difficult when they come around.

    ZTD great to 'see' you. I am an old timer with a new UN and used to post on the daily chat. I also have a recollection of a Chinese Buffet in our local, beautiful town :)
    "These things take time but I know that I'm the most inept that ever stepped"
  • Oh beanie, sometimes the best thing we can do is force our children to stand on their own feet. I now book the day of my dad's anniversary off work as I know I struggle with things then. Take care.
    Mortgage at 01.01.14 £119,481.83:eek: today £0 Emergency fund £5.5/5.5k & £200/200 cash.:jWeight 24/02/19 14st 7lb now 12st determined to stop defining myself by my mistakes. Progress not perfection.:T100%through my 1% mortgage challenge. 100% through my pb challenge.
  • Butti
    Butti Posts: 5,014 Forumite
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    :grouphug:

    That hug is REALLY dodgy
    Debt LBM (08/09) £11,641. DEBT FREE APRIL 2021.
    Diary 'Butti's journey : A matter of loaf or death'.
    Diary 2 'The whimsical tale of the Waterbed of Debt'
    48% off mortgage

    'one day I will be rich and famous…for now I'll just have to settle for being poor and incredibly sexy'. Vimrod Member of MIKE'S :cool: MOB
  • beanielou wrote: »
    Have truly had day from hell.
    WW3 with my lodgers.
    I have given them marching orders.
    & have asked GF for her key.
    She was very very not nice.
    4 years yesterday since my dad died.
    Unfortunatly I owe DS money.
    From Smilie and me hug2-smiley.gif?1292867621xx
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    Butti wrote: »
    :grouphug:

    That hug is REALLY dodgy

    What's a dodgy hug between friends? Far preferable to my dodgy jokes... ;)
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
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