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Baby steps to mortgage freedom for beanielou.

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  • Karmacat
    Karmacat Posts: 39,460 Forumite
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    Sending lots of good vibes to DS, the fur babies and you Xx

    Yep, good vibes, and healing vibes, to all of you xxx
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
  • teafor2
    teafor2 Posts: 3,322 Forumite
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    Morning Beanie :) Hope you're feeling a bit better in yourself today. Good vibes being sent for you and yours from sunny Greater Manchester. xx
  • Bubblesmum
    Bubblesmum Posts: 1,778 Forumite
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    Hello - Waving madly

    Sorry not been around - will DM you

    Sorry to hear about feline friend.... they give us such unconditional love.

    May I say as someone who shares the same medical condition as you, your diary gives me great comfort that I am not alone in my everyday struggles

    That you give so much to the world in words as well as actions, and that kindness is Gold.

    Much love and hugs... BM
    As a dear MSE friend says “keep plodding” or
    What does the saying say.... When life hands you lemons, make lemonade
    Or as my Mum would say, brush yourself down, tomorrow is another day or
    Fake it, to you Make It

    Please say hello my new diary: https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6578460/still-dancing-to-blow-the-debt-clouds-away
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,772 Ambassador
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    I’m loving how even when things aren’t great between you and ds that you’re still encouraging the good vibes to go his way. Sending them to him and some to you too. Sometimes just hiding from the world is what’s needed to let you regroup. Take care
    Karmacat wrote: »
    Yep, good vibes, and healing vibes, to all of you xxx

    Thank you both so much.
    DS is usually food for my soul & as I have always said I always always love him. xx
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,772 Ambassador
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    Bubblesmum wrote: »
    Hello - Waving madly

    Sorry not been around - will DM you

    Sorry to hear about feline friend.... they give us such unconditional love.

    May I say as someone who shares the same medical condition as you, your diary gives me great comfort that I am not alone in my everyday struggles

    That you give so much to the world in words as well as actions, and that kindness is Gold.

    Much love and hugs... BM

    Thank you BM my spoonie friend xxx
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Karmacat
    Karmacat Posts: 39,460 Forumite
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    beanielou wrote: »
    Thank you both so much.
    DS is usually food for my soul & as I have always said I always always love him. xx
    You're very welcome, of course. As for loving DS ... of course you do, but that doesn't mean it's always plain sailing, humans just aren't like that.


    Have a dodgy hug :grouphug: and a proper hug :kisses3:
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
  • milann
    milann Posts: 11,524 Forumite
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    Sorry things are so rubbish at the moment Beanie.
    Hopefully things will blow over with your ds. Families eh?....
    Poor lady cat too.
    I’m not surprised you’re feeling a tad down.
    Hang on in there...lighter nights and sunny days are just around the corner :beer:
    January spends - £587.58
  • I hope whatever DS is up to will be wildly successful, so many good vibes coming his way must be helping :). I'm sure he will want to see his lovely mum soon so things will soon be back to normal :).

    I hope you manage to enjoy Miss J's company for a bit longer.
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,772 Ambassador
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    Karmacat wrote: »
    You're very welcome, of course. As for loving DS ... of course you do, but that doesn't mean it's always plain sailing, humans just aren't like that.


    Have a dodgy hug :grouphug: and a proper hug :kisses3:
    milann wrote: »
    Sorry things are so rubbish at the moment Beanie.
    Hopefully things will blow over with your ds. Families eh?....
    Poor lady cat too.
    I’m not surprised you’re feeling a tad down.
    Hang on in there...lighter nights and sunny days are just around the corner :beer:
    I hope whatever DS is up to will be wildly successful, so many good vibes coming his way must be helping :). I'm sure he will want to see his lovely mum soon so things will soon be back to normal :).

    I hope you manage to enjoy Miss J's company for a bit longer.

    Thank you all :)

    I have a FB meeting tonight.
    So CBA:o
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • I hope the FB meeting goes okay.
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
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