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Baby steps to mortgage freedom for beanielou.

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  • teafor2
    teafor2 Posts: 3,322 Forumite
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    Oh Beanie, you're really going through it at the moment aren't you. Hope it's something that can be sorted out sooner rather than later. xx
  • Busy_Mee1
    Busy_Mee1 Posts: 1,015 Forumite
    Sending you a very large virtual hug Beanie xx
  • Butti
    Butti Posts: 5,014 Forumite
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    beanielou wrote: »
    Thanks teafor2 :)


    I saw my friend regularly.
    We just got each other in so many ways.

    Although I am struggling on many levels it is what it is & a lot of it is outwith my control. xx

    Beanie,
    My friend skype's her friend in South Africa every day. Sometimes they just do things with the other person in the background. A way of keeping her close.

    Crossing my fingers for you and the kitten,
    B x
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  • Hope the dust settles between you and DS quickly Xx
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  • teafor2
    teafor2 Posts: 3,322 Forumite
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    Just popping in to say good morning. Hope you're feeling better today and you get things sorted out with DS. xx
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,756 Ambassador
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    I am keeping my distance from the DS situation for the moment.

    I have no energy & havent been out today.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
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  • abba1772
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    Aww beanie hope your ok you and Ds will make up soon enough xx
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  • teapot2
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    thinking of you and sorry to hear that life feels so tough at the moment :( x
  • I hope you and DS make up soon, I'm sure you will as he loves his mum.

    I hope you have a bit more energy tomorrow.
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,756 Ambassador
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    Thanks eeveryone.

    The thing with DS has blown over slightly.

    We are both stressed out about different things & I think when things are like that then things can be taken out of context & blown out of porpotion.

    Anyway. If you could also send DS lots of good vibes for this week I would much appreciate it. Thanks.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
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