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Baby steps to mortgage freedom for beanielou.
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See how it goes with the lodger Beanie, hopefully things will get easier when you get used to it. Sorry to hear you're feeling out of sorts
Take care xx I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)0 -
Hugs Beanie hope things get easier.
LTotal Debt Dec 07 £59875.83 Overdrafts £2900,New Debt Figure ZERO !!!!!!:j 08/06/2013
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Thaank you lovely peeps.I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
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Thinking of you too, beanie xxx2023: the year I get to buy a car0
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Sending hugs from me xxBe who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.
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More hugs from me.
One of the things I am learning, is the great impact stress has on my fatigue.... hoping this weekend is filled with something relaxing and chilling to do.
More hugsAs a dear MSE friend says “keep plodding” or
What does the saying say.... When life hands you lemons, make lemonade
Or as my Mum would say, brush yourself down, tomorrow is another day or
Fake it, to you Make It
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Stress is terrible. It pretty much pushes everything else out of your head and makes logical thought impossible.
One of the tricks I have from my counselling is visualising a calm place. Mine is a beach in the North East. So I close my eyes and visualise walking along the beach, in amongst the dogs and under the pier. It helps me.Debt LBM (08/09) £11,641. DEBT FREE APRIL 2021.
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Fu,nnily enough I was at a meditation last night which was great.
I felt able to relax & felt almost pain free for a little while.
I just worry so much about what happens going forward.
I am less & less physically able which worries me & I feel more and more of a burden which isent great.
I worry about the mortgage and being able to pay it going forward.
I worry about the future for disabled people.I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
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Thinking of you, beanie - feeling limited, and knowing what national policies are like, it's hard not to feel worried. Glad you went to meditation, thats a really good idea. I can't remember if you do that at home as well?2023: the year I get to buy a car0
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Glad you got something out of the meditation.
For the not so good stuff, all you can do is take it step by step, one day at a time xxI get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)0
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