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Baby steps to mortgage freedom for beanielou.
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Fell in a puddle earlier.
Two folk came & helped me up.
My MH is just dipping & dipping.
It is not a funny thing that happened to you, however, I misread dipping as dripping and I was trying to figure out what MH was in the context (mauve handbag / Mum's handkerchief / messy hair (??)) Then I realised my error and it made me smile briefly. I just want to send you some virtual hugs as I understand the MH struggle.Mortgage at 12/07/2022 = £175,000
Mortgage today = £161,690.76
300 271 payments to go.House buyout fund £21,000/£40,000
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girlatplay wrote: »It is not a funny thing that happened to you, however, I misread dipping as dripping and I was trying to figure out what MH was in the context (mauve handbag / Mum's handkerchief / messy hair (??)) Then I realised my error and it made me smile briefly. I just want to send you some virtual hugs as I understand the MH struggle.
I know you get my MH struggle:(:AI am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.1 -
Hi Beanie, sorry to hear you're struggling with your MH. Even though the medical evidence made grim reading, maybe that could be a good thing for the assessment, as opposed to how you actually feel, if that makes sense. You obviously have daily struggles but for the most come across as having a positive outlook on life and don't seem to let much hold you back, so try to hang on to that.
I fear none of that has come across as it's meant but hope you get the gist of what I'm trying to say. Look after yourself. xx1 -
Hi Beanie, sorry to hear you're struggling with your MH. Even though the medical evidence made grim reading, maybe that could be a good thing for the assessment, as opposed to how you actually feel, if that makes sense. You obviously have daily struggles but for the most come across as having a positive outlook on life and don't seem to let much hold you back, so try to hang on to that.
I fear none of that has come across as it's meant but hope you get the gist of what I'm trying to say. Look after yourself. xx
It has come across perfectly. Thank you xxI am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.1 -
We had a talk at work about MH awareness and it's great it's coming to the forefront and not the stigma it once was. I hope your RL friends are there to help you through the bad times - if not your virtual friends will xxI get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)1
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Sun_Addict wrote: »We had a talk at work about MH awareness and it's great it's coming to the forefront and not the stigma it once was. I hope your RL friends are there to help you through the bad times - if not your virtual friends will xx
Thank you SA.
I dont discuss things with my RL friends really xxI am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.1 -
Hugs Beanie
LTotal Debt Dec 07 £59875.83 Overdrafts £2900,New Debt Figure ZERO !!!!!!:j 08/06/2013
Lucielle's Daring Debt Free Journey
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From me too ... I didn't know about MH
2023: the year I get to buy a car1 -
Plodding on.
Nothing of any interest to say.
Got medical evidence from my GP.
Had a meltdown when I read it.
Grim reading.
Fell in a puddle earlier.
Two folk came & helped me up.
My MH is just dipping & dipping.
Sorry to hear this Beanie. I hope things improve for you. You are so amazing and you deserve better.Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS1 -
Thank you HHD.I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.1
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