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logie

TrulyMadly wrote: »

Sorry to hear about your DH logie...it's awful when that happens. I know there could be a simple explanation but it doesn't stop you thinking that you are deliberately being excluded:o

I really think and hope there is an explanation. One of the blokes is one of his best mates who he sees two or three times a week. I'd just mope about it if it were me. However, he has sent a straight to the point text message saying what he thinks. Maybe H's Christening party at ours won't be such a squeeze after all

Mildred1970

Evening all :wave:

Sunshinemummy wrote: »

I have had two NSD, only because I am totally knackered

I am going AWOL for the week, as I have a horrendous week ahead with work.

Take care. x

Take it easy SSM x

Chrisv

TrulyMadly wrote: »

My Muller lust shop from earlier. Thank you.....

Paid for using a womble and nearly £2 back:T

Hi TM What's the T's and Sains comparisons like? TIA.

izzy65

Snap-ant wrote: »

£50



I use this solid curry sauce from Ts & dissolve a chunk in boiling water

Good evening, aldi do a powder chinese sauce that is just like the one from the chinese restaurant and really cheap.:)

Bananababe

Savvybuyer wrote: »

As I'm now so averse to trouble or conflict:o:o, this leads to me not saying anything at all (which then increases the problem as makes me more introverted). Then they expect you to say something and, when you don't, your silence is treated as being rude. (Why didn't you speak to me when asked?)

But...I didn'ta know what to say. (Nor do I know what to say to the question of why I didn't say anything, that you've now asked. Should I give the truth? And then be taken to be rude? Or should I make something up and then be wrestling internally with my own lying?)

I can't win... however, as that is the case, I do not therefore even try "to win" and therefore I don't bother about it and I'm perfectly fine!:D:T

In fact I've also gone the other way. I'm a lot more assertive in a lot of ways than I ever used to be. Sometimes straight to the point is the best way. Sometimes you can have people that respect that - "I like how you tell it as it is". But I don't necessarily mean to be "outspoken" - and sometimes, yes, I do mean to be outspoken and I like to be a little controversial (often in a teasing-kind of way). Often I deliberately tell the truth but also in a way that I am laughing, or they think I am, so it puts it past them as they think I'm having a joke (even though both me and them knows it's the truth!):):rotfl:. In fact I am laughing. I sometimes just add a laugh to do so and make it more acceptable which, often, it works! That said I'd know to keep my mouth shut in other circumstances. Through long personal experience rather than through 'just knowing'. Sadly. As it means nothing will ever change and allistic world will never learn - just not prepared to listen to the truth sometimes! And I know some allistic people who actually agree with me, yet still follow what their society forces them to do and go along with it. But then we have to, and that's how it works:( - doesn't solve it as such, just increashes the truth of the "not prepared to hear the truth"! IMO.

I think your right people don't really want you to be either honest or truthful when it comes to them or theirs :rotfl:

Savvybuyer

Bananababe wrote: »

I think your right people don't really want you to be either honest or truthful when it comes to them or theirs :rotfl:

:rotfl::rotfl:

LANGO1966

Chrisv wrote: »

Hi TM What's the T's and Sains comparisons like? TIA.

Results from my shop yesterday may help. Bought 12 as on offer at 6 for £3 at S

ASDA VoucherWhy £3.58?
« Back to comparison results
15 items (10 different) on your bill qualify for comparison ASDA Sainsbury's
+£2.86

2 x Muller Crunch Corner Yogurt - Vanilla Chocolate Ba... £1.36 £1.00
2 x Muller Crunch Corner Yogurt - Banana Chocolate Fla... £1.36 £1.00
2 x Muller Crunch Corner Yogurt - Toffee Hoops (135g) £1.36 £1.00
2 x Muller Corner Crunch Yogurt - Chocolate Digestive ... £1.36 £1.00
2 x Muller Rice - Strawberry (180g) £1.36 £1.00
1 x Muller Rice - Apple (180g) £0.68 £0.50
1 x Muller Rice - Original (180g) £0.68 £0.50
1 x HP Original Sauce - Squeezy (425g) £1.70 £1.00
1 x Candyland Flumps Mallow Twists (12g) £0.10 £0.10
1 x Butcher's Choice Lean & Tasty Chicken & Turkey wit... £0.58 N/A
1 x Haribo Tangfastics £0.10 £0.10

Comparison total (compared products only)

Savvybuyer

Chrisv wrote: »

I thought the Morries prices were updated on a Wednesday and Friday Savvy. Has this changed?

http://www.asdapriceguarantee.co.uk/Administration/Terms-And-Conditions.aspx

No, but that T&C is merely an aspiration/hope or, actually, more accurately, it's the reverse: it's a caution approach. They mean Wednesday or Friday as a long-stop day - in other words "by Wednesday". We've seen they normally update about midday on Tuesdays. (And Thursdays presumably.) So, the T&C gives "Wednesday and Friday" as long-stops: it's not meant, there, to be read literally:D:rotfl::rotfl:.

Sometimes, rarely, it is Wednesday on the Monday collection. It's also Wednesday after Bank Holidays (when collection is done on Tuesday). It's more usually Tuesday though - so buy up to and including Monday if you wish to catch last Wednesday's collection and wait until at least Wednesday night if you want to catch Monday's. Being cautious on both of those.

bexter7

DeeDee74 wrote: »

I know do you have a direct line can you drop the hint I'd like someit a bit different this week not sure what but someit free .

It's the oil care one £1.99 T's £3.72 .com £1.50 instore
Might be with a look see what is like.

Ah yes, I see that one on .com now ... Not sure if these were reduced in my store. I need to go and check. I only saw the normal shampoo and conditioner but I didn't take any pictures of that section ... Thanks D. Could be great x

rhosynbach

Bananababe wrote: »

I think your right people don't really want you to be either honest or truthful when it comes to them or theirs :rotfl:

:rotfl: loving this conversation and totally agree,
if my girls asked me what they look like or anyone else asked i am truthful but they are never happy with the reply, why ask me if you dont want me to tell the truth, they can then make a judgement whether to go out looking like they do:o:o