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Trying it on ?

thepedestrian
thepedestrian Posts: 997 Forumite
Sent a shirt out ,the other week to someone who had won it , a few days later got an Ebay message that the shirt was received , but covered in dog hairs and stinking of sweat / unwashed ( nice ! )

said I was sorry that this had happened ( through gritted teeth ) - I distinctly remembered the item as being in a very clean / unworn / fresh condition - told them that I do not have any pets and that as the detailed close up pictures in the listing showed ,it was very clean - but would issue a full refund ,with all postage costs if they would like to return it - they then pointed out one picture in the listing that had one solitary 1cm hair on it

Sent my return details again , repeating full refund will be given and apologising for that ONE hair , then nothing, then suddenly a positive feedback from them saying " Many thanks - all ok " ( dsr unaffected )

!!!!!! ??
As Martin says - please be nice - there is no such thing as a stupid question ! ;)
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  • soolin
    soolin Posts: 74,452 Ambassador
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    Something that was being discussed at work on Monday was that sometimes a simple 'I am sorry' is all an upset person needs.
    Maybe it was as simple as that.
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  • thepedestrian
    thepedestrian Posts: 997 Forumite
    edited 9 September 2014 at 7:55PM
    Thats very true in a lot of cases - with me .....not sure about this Ebay
    one though ;)
    As Martin says - please be nice - there is no such thing as a stupid question ! ;)
  • Had a feeling this wasnt over ! - another message today

    "hi my miss wants to keep. the top so we going to put it into a dry cleaning which will cost her £4.99? so she would like a refund for the cost of the dry cleaning thank"

    again !!!!!! ??
    As Martin says - please be nice - there is no such thing as a stupid question ! ;)
  • soolin
    soolin Posts: 74,452 Ambassador
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    Had a feeling this wasnt over ! - another message today

    "hi my miss wants to keep. the top so we going to put it into a dry cleaning which will cost her £4.99? so she would like a refund for the cost of the dry cleaning thank"

    again !!!!!! ??

    Stick to your guns, apologise again and tell them to return for a full refund, don't even mention the dry cleaning.

    The more they ask the more you apologise and offer a full refund. It will drive them up the wall :D but as they have left feedback they cAn only now open a case and get told to return it anyway.
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  • campdave
    campdave Posts: 2,198 Forumite
    Advise you are happy to refund upon receipt.
  • Good points - something like this maybe ?......

    Hi - sorry I dont think Ebay rules will allow for a partial refund on an item that you have agreed was acceptable by leaving positive feedback for - you can still return to me at my address given previously for a refund though

    Apology's again

    Regards
    As Martin says - please be nice - there is no such thing as a stupid question ! ;)
  • Personally i would just ignore them now
  • yes that is another option !
    As Martin says - please be nice - there is no such thing as a stupid question ! ;)
  • campdave
    campdave Posts: 2,198 Forumite
    Good points - something like this maybe ?......

    Hi - sorry I dont think Ebay rules will allow for a partial refund on an item that you have agreed was acceptable by leaving positive feedback for - you can still return to me at my address given previously for a refund though

    Apology's again

    Regards

    Liklihood is a buyer like this knows full well partial refunds are possible.

    Be polite and brief "As before, I am happy to refund in full upon return of item."
  • Annoying to think that this might be the way things are trending on Ebay though ,in that they purchase an item and they really like it - but think they would like it a lot more if they could have it for nothing ! (free! post )
    As Martin says - please be nice - there is no such thing as a stupid question ! ;)
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