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Spent 4 years pretending it's all OK
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Thanks Brizzle:o That's a lovely thing to say.
NOA
xFeb2014 Total unsecured debt £72,520>>01/06/16 £68166>01/02/17 £66,600=8.18%PAID
Mortgage Jan14=209,800 Jan15=£200,300 Jan17£180,700>OCT17 £170,200
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Sorting probate is never fun...but glad you're getting through it. Your dad would have understood I am sure..he loved you and that's what matters. We all make mistakes..he did, but maybe in different places. The main thing is he'd be proud of you facing into it and dealing with the debt
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brizzledfw wrote: »Sorting probate is never fun...but glad you're getting through it. Your dad would have understood I am sure..he loved you and that's what matters. We all make mistakes..he did, but maybe in different places. The main thing is he'd be proud of you facing into it and dealing with the debt
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You are right Brizzle, thank you. The main thing he wanted us to be was independent - and that I am sometimes to a fault.
Have got my head round most of it. When I made phone calls last week, they tried to sell a fixed fee package to deal with it all - just under £2K. They called back today to see how I wanted to proceed. In the meantime I have done lots of research etc . Was told transfer of property would costs hundreds in solicitors fees etc. After digging around on lots of sites, have confirmed that as they were jointly owned it is just a single form to be sent off, and no cost!! So sad how many people would have been caught out by this, at a vulnerable time. admitted it has taken time, but it will have saved mum 2K. :money:
Lots more to do today, also another quote to send off.
Pleased with my efforts last wee as have kept on top of all new stuff, so no more paper added to existing backlog. :T
Have a good week everyone.
NOA
xFeb2014 Total unsecured debt £72,520>>01/06/16 £68166>01/02/17 £66,600=8.18%PAID
Mortgage Jan14=209,800 Jan15=£200,300 Jan17£180,700>OCT17 £170,200
Health/Fitness Challenges Priority#1 Stay Fit and healthy - whatever it takes:)
Wombling Free Cash May2016 £510 -
Its going to be a busy couple of weeks, high anxiety levels, visiting various family with mum, don't really want to but has to be done, so won't be around much.
Wishing everyone a happy time.
Back when I can.
NOA
xxFeb2014 Total unsecured debt £72,520>>01/06/16 £68166>01/02/17 £66,600=8.18%PAID
Mortgage Jan14=209,800 Jan15=£200,300 Jan17£180,700>OCT17 £170,200
Health/Fitness Challenges Priority#1 Stay Fit and healthy - whatever it takes:)
Wombling Free Cash May2016 £510 -
Thinking of you and sending positive thoughts
XxMFiT-T4 Member No. 96 - 2022 is my MF goal
Winter 17/18 Savings Rate Goal: 25% [October 30%] :T
Declutter 60 items before 31.03.18 9/60 ** LSDs Target 10 for March 03/10 **AFDs 10/15 ** Sales/TCB Target 2018 £25/£500 NSDs Target 10 for March 02/10 Trying to be a Frugalista:rotfl::T0 -
NoOneAround wrote: »Its going to be a busy couple of weeks, high anxiety levels, visiting various family with mum, don't really want to but has to be done, so won't be around much.
Wishing everyone a happy time.
Back when I can.
NOA
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I hope your visiting is not too awful. Good luck NOA. See you soon." Your vibe attracts your tribe":D
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I'm back and have survived. Looking forward to some home time.
Not at work till Wednesday.
Hope everyone well, will catch up on some diaries in the next few days:)
NOA
xFeb2014 Total unsecured debt £72,520>>01/06/16 £68166>01/02/17 £66,600=8.18%PAID
Mortgage Jan14=209,800 Jan15=£200,300 Jan17£180,700>OCT17 £170,200
Health/Fitness Challenges Priority#1 Stay Fit and healthy - whatever it takes:)
Wombling Free Cash May2016 £510 -
Welcome back!" Your vibe attracts your tribe":D
Debt neutral 27/03/17 from £40k:eek: in the hole 2012.
Roadkill 17 £56.58 2016-£62.28 2015- £84.20)
RYSAW17 £1900 2016 £2,535.16 2015 £1027.200 -
Thanks Bob and Brizzle 😊Have been lying awake since 2am. Am doing exactly what I always tell ds not to do - use screens at nighttime 🙁It's going to be a long day today.
Tasks to do
Catch up mail and email
Washing tons of
Look through we work - prioritise
Catch up on mum's mail
I think that will take most of day if I can focus.
NOA xFeb2014 Total unsecured debt £72,520>>01/06/16 £68166>01/02/17 £66,600=8.18%PAID
Mortgage Jan14=209,800 Jan15=£200,300 Jan17£180,700>OCT17 £170,200
Health/Fitness Challenges Priority#1 Stay Fit and healthy - whatever it takes:)
Wombling Free Cash May2016 £510 -
Oh no NOA that is a very early start. Take care of yourself today. Go steady on the school run. Early bed tonight." Your vibe attracts your tribe":D
Debt neutral 27/03/17 from £40k:eek: in the hole 2012.
Roadkill 17 £56.58 2016-£62.28 2015- £84.20)
RYSAW17 £1900 2016 £2,535.16 2015 £1027.200
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