Why are some ex's so spiteful?

Money_maker

Put your head up and carry on walking.

If its such a great night, what was he doing thinking of you?

Skintski

Because it makes them feel like they are better than you. Feel sorry for him that he requires such actions.

barbiedoll

ImDoingItForMe wrote: »

I felt like I was treading on eggshells anyway the way he was. Ive not known him long anyway....

This is the bit that I don't like. Sending a nasty text is not a big deal, my DH has done it to me after a tiff, as have I. (Yes, we're very childish when we row!)

But.....if you're walking on eggshells around him anyway, you should steer well clear. This won't get any better, he sounds like a moody git at best. If he's having tantrums and dumping you for spurious reasons, it means he may well be back sooner or later, professing love and asking forgiveness.

Until next time, of course.

You haven't known him long and it doesn't sound like you're madly in love with him. Put his stuff in bin liners (Old Spice :rotfl:), leave it outside and don't let him in. Delete his number and move on. There's plenty more (old) fish in the sea!

[Deleted User]

All its made me feel is that he couldn't of thought much of me anyway.. And if he did its a warped way of showing how you feel...

greenwoodlad

S**t, I'm male and I am 45 - I'm not him though haha.. you're better off without the plank, he's giving us decent dude's a bad name lol what an idiot by the way you were talking i thought he was about 17 pulling a stunt like that. he needs to grow up

lulu_92

Pollycat wrote: »

Sounds like 45 going on 15.

I'm sure you won't miss that bottle of Old Spice after shave in your bathroom cabinet. :rotfl:

:rotfl:

That made me chuckle. Can't believe he's 45! What a man-child!

[Deleted User]

Just got a string of texts off him. Can't be dealing with him. Told him I'll leave stuff on step if he texts when he passes...I don't want to see him.

lulu_92

ImDoingItForMe wrote: »

Just got a string of texts off him. Can't be dealing with him. Told him I'll leave stuff on step if he texts when he passes...I don't want to see him.

I wouldn't want to see him either. Good on you, be strong!

[Deleted User]

You should see what he text.. What have I ever done for him??? Omg I did remind him but left a last text saying. It wouldn't of mattered what I did... no one or anything would please you. And that will be it. I'm done..

lulu_92

ImDoingItForMe wrote: »

You should see what he text.. What have I ever done for him??? Omg I did remind him but left a last text saying. It wouldn't of mattered what I did... no one or anything would please you. And that will be it. I'm done..

Is he for real?! I think this person needs a serious reality check.

You probably have done loads for him during your relationship and you can sit happily knowing that you have done all the things of a good partner.

Seeing as he's 45, has he been married in the past? If he has and he's fairly fresh out of it that could explain (not defend) his peculiar behaviour. Or he's just a massive self-involved idiot:rotfl: