Why are some ex's so spiteful?

[Deleted User]

My ex boyfriend ended with me for no reason other than he was in a mood with what I said. I felt like I was treading on eggshells anyway the way he was. Ive not known him long anyway. I get a text off him in the early hours saying "what a great night out ive missed" and he's come to pick his belongings up. Not much just toiletries. Why tell me ive missed a "great night out". He ended it. Seems a bit spiteful....

lulu_92

Oh chick I've been there, it's hard but you have to let him have this strop. If he's worth his salt he will come back when he's in a better mood and you can choose what to do on yours terms.

Hope you're okay

chucknorris

ImDoingItForMe wrote: »

My ex boyfriend ended with me for no reason other than he was in a mood with what I said. I felt like I was treading on eggshells anyway the way he was. Ive not known him long anyway. I get a text off him in the early hours saying "what a great night out ive missed" and he's come to pick his belongings up. Not much just toiletries. Why tell me ive missed a "great night out". He ended it. Seems a bit spiteful....

You're better off without him, deep down you probably already know that.

greenwoodlad

Don't quite get it...did he think you had been on a night out??? with another lad or the girls ..was he jealous of you for going on a night out without him...he sounds like he's being childish ..if he cares ..really cares - he'll be back

[Deleted User]

No. He invited me to this night out a few weekends ago. Then ended it with me then text in early hours saying what a great night I missed and also said he will pick up his stuff from mine.

Pollycat

lulu_92 wrote: »

Oh chick I've been there, it's hard but you have to let him have this strop. If he's worth his salt he will come back when he's in a better mood and you can choose what to do on yours terms.

Hope you're okay

If he was worth his salt, he wouldn't have thrown a childish strop and ended the relationship.

If the OP has any sense she'll put his belongings on the door step, delete his phone number and leave him to it.

[Deleted User]

Pollycat wrote: »

If he was worth his salt, he wouldn't have thrown a childish strop and ended the relationship.

If the OP has any sense she'll put his belongings on the door step, delete his phone number and leave him to it.

Exactly the way I feel...

Maz

God, how old is he? He sounds like a petulant 12 year old. You've dodged a bullet there I think, what a plank!

lulu_92

Pollycat wrote: »

If he was worth his salt, he wouldn't have thrown a childish strop and ended the relationship.

If the OP has any sense she'll put his belongings on the door step, delete his phone number and leave him to it.

Yeah you're right. I meant that if he gives a Damn IYKWIM

give him a taste of his own medicine, but for good! There's plenty of guys out there who will give you the respect you deserve

[Deleted User]

He's 45!!! Just can't believe anyone would text what he did. It sounded like he was trying to make me jealous. In fact its made me feel what an idiot or worse words I can't use on MSE...

Pollycat

ImDoingItForMe wrote: »

and he's come to pick his belongings up. Not much just toiletries.

ImDoingItForMe wrote: »

He's 45!!! Just can't believe anyone would text what he did. It sounded like he was trying to make me jealous. In fact its made me feel what an idiot or worse words I can't use on MSE...

Sounds like 45 going on 15.

I'm sure you won't miss that bottle of Old Spice after shave in your bathroom cabinet. :rotfl: