We're aware that some users are experiencing technical issues which the team are working to resolve. See the Community Noticeboard for more info. Thank you for your patience.
📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

Relationship ended and car

Options
13

Comments

  • Can you contact the car manufacturer and obtain a replacement key?

    Not sure what paperwork it will need, but suspect you probably have it all.
  • wizzywig27
    wizzywig27 Posts: 1,536 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    It's a ford fiesta. Really not sure, looking at about £80 - again at cost to me. She did reply to my text this morning and basically told me that she has paid all we agreed, and to take her to court
  • balletshoes
    balletshoes Posts: 16,610 Forumite
    how much did you agree to sell the car to her for, and how much has she paid you so far?
  • wizzywig27
    wizzywig27 Posts: 1,536 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    I agreed to sell it to her for £500, she has given me £400 - but again there is nothing in writing. I am not trying to screw her over, and I know it's only £100, but I sold it to her really cheap, and she can't even pay me it.

    She is also now threatening not to pay the rent (we have a joint tenancy with six months left) and also tough she is not living here she has agreed to pay it.
  • pogofish
    pogofish Posts: 10,853 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Is she a named driver on your insurance too?

    My ex bizarrely decided she could still help herself to my car some time after the relationship ended - and it came as rather a surprise to her when the police pulled her for no insurance, as I had removed her from the policy some months previously.

    Result was six points on her licence and a total (She got TWOC too) fine of something like £180 - apparently they only hit her with the minimum level of fine for insurance as she was caught in a shop car park rather than on the road - which would have meant a four-figure sum.
  • balletshoes
    balletshoes Posts: 16,610 Forumite
    wizzywig27 wrote: »
    I agreed to sell it to her for £500, she has given me £400 - but again there is nothing in writing. I am not trying to screw her over, and I know it's only £100, but I sold it to her really cheap, and she can't even pay me it.

    She is also now threatening not to pay the rent (we have a joint tenancy with six months left) and also tough she is not living here she has agreed to pay it.

    the bad news is, you don't (as I understand it) have any proof that you agreed to sell the car for £500 to her, and you don't have any proof that she's only given you £400. I doubt you'd get anywhere at small claims court if those are the facts.

    Also, as regards the rent - unfortunately, with a joint tenancy, usually you are jointly and severally liable for the rent, which means if she doesn't pay her half, your landlord will be looking for you to pay it all. Check your tenancy agreement to see if this is the case.
  • JReacher1
    JReacher1 Posts: 4,661 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper I've been Money Tipped!
    wizzywig27 wrote: »
    I agreed to sell it to her for £500, she has given me £400 - but again there is nothing in writing. I am not trying to screw her over, and I know it's only £100, but I sold it to her really cheap, and she can't even pay me it.

    She is also now threatening not to pay the rent (we have a joint tenancy with six months left) and also tough she is not living here she has agreed to pay it.

    I think you'll lose sympathy now. She has paid 80% of the cost of this car. It sort of appears you are being a bit vindictive now. I assume she ended the relationship?
  • wizzywig27
    wizzywig27 Posts: 1,536 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    Hello ballet, I have spoken to my legal helpline about rent, I know that if she refuses to pay it the landlord will take us both to court, then it's up to me to then take her to court with proof I have paid etc, I don't want it to get to that stage but the longer this goes on I feel it may have to.

    I am going to view a new house on Wednesday.

    Reacher, although I appreciate and respect your comments, I have not come on here looking for sympathy, just to ask advice. I have given facts (could have lied) and irrespective of wether or not I coming across as vindictive, do you think my car finance company would appreciate my not paying the final payment?

    In regards to which finished who, why does that matter?
  • balletshoes
    balletshoes Posts: 16,610 Forumite
    wizzywig27 wrote: »
    Hello ballet, I have spoken to my legal helpline about rent, I know that if she refuses to pay it the landlord will take us both to court, then it's up to me to then take her to court with proof I have paid etc, I don't want it to get to that stage but the longer this goes on I feel it may have to.

    I am going to view a new house on Wednesday.

    Reacher, although I appreciate and respect your comments, I have not come on here looking for sympathy, just to ask advice. I have given facts (could have lied) and irrespective of wether or not I coming across as vindictive,
    do you think my car finance company would appreciate my not paying the final payment?

    In regards to which finished who, why does that matter?

    the difference is though, you have a written contract with your car finance company. You don't have this regarding the car with your ex, do you?
  • wizzywig27
    wizzywig27 Posts: 1,536 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    No, but then surely if there is no evidence either way, the car is mine?
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 351K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.1K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 453.6K Spending & Discounts
  • 244K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 598.8K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 176.9K Life & Family
  • 257.3K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.1K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.6K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.