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Bananababe

happy Birthday Logie

:bdaycake:

aau1

Bananababe wrote: »

happy Birthday AAU


:bdaycake:

Cheers m'dear

Happy birthday to logie too x

Bananababe

aau1 wrote: »

Hi hobbittjones :wave:

Did you see Bananababe was fantasising about you the other day?

She said "dream" but we know what she meant!

Never said it was a bad dream

Bananababe

fairclaire wrote: »

Watching Good Will Hunting. Such a good film. So sad that someone so talented was blighted with depression even sadder that he hid it so well and worked to such a high standard.

My OH was offered a job recently.....only 2 days a week, no pressure, a nominal wage and he won't take it we don't need the money and that didn't come in to it. He won't take the job because he has no belief in himself . It's sad.....he used to command troops in a war situation and he hasn't the confidence to take a job doing something he's really good at
it's despairing

No words sweetheart just big scottish squidgies being sent down xxxxx

fairclaire

You must be !!!!!!! ancient :eek: you've had at least 15 birthdays since Ive been here :eek:

Happy birthday

springdreams

Happy birthday AAU and logie

Tinyshoes

fairclaire wrote: »

It's a *big sigh* we are good right now! but I know he lies to me. In the darkest moments he has asked me to let him go.....accept that what's in his head is so bad, it's better than being alive I I can't even imagine feeling that bad
I do get angry I do remind him he has children to think about. It is a selfish illness. I don't sleep because I wake up checking......every night. I thought things were better, and good. But he drank some wine last weekend and said he waits on opportunities for us all to fall asleep but I won't! I won't give him the opportunity

This may sound odd but I think it is positive he can actually voice how he feels to you.

I have been under a dark cloud at one point in my life, and when you are there it is only you that can get yourself out of it. Without knowing details I would think your OH has been through much more that any human should really ever have to cope with it must be so hard for him to get to the brighter side of life.

He is lucky to have you to keep a watchful eye on him. :A

Tinyshoes

Bananababe wrote: »

happy Birthday AAU


:bdaycake:

Oooh is it aau's birthday, I think I have some party balloons somewhere.

Happy Birthday aau :beer:

Tinyshoes

Happy Birthday Logie. :bdaycake:

fairclaire

Tinyshoes wrote: »

This may sound odd but I think it is positive he can actually voice how he feels to you.

I have been under a dark cloud at one point in my life, and when you are there it is only you can that get yourself out if it. Without knowing details I would think your OH has been through much more that any human should really ever have to cope with it must be so hard for him to get to the brighter side of life.

He is lucky to have you to keep a watchful eye on him. :A

Thanks Ts :A I sound like a selfish cow I'm not. It bothers me so much. He can't move on and I pulling all the time because I want to move on. Ahhh hard work sometimes