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Surely you have to let her know that you've read all of her feedback to other buyers?Pants0
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Ineedaservant wrote: »Just occurred to me that she has not asked for her money back (I know that is a given) so if she just sends it back to me without a case ... Happy Days!
I am not really that mean, am I?
eBay brings it out in you!! I was ranting for a whole day when someone left me positive dot with feedback saying please refund my delivery as it took almost a week to get here!
Paid for Sat afternoon...received Wed 2nd class postage they paid for..that's bloody fast if you ask me!!People don't know what they want until you show them.0 -
Thank you warehouse for reminding me to have another look at her feedback left for others; this has been posted today
the item was unsuitable butwith the sellers help I am trying to sell it on e bay
and I start the wait again...0 -
LOL. You have to wonder about people!!
Tell her that you have spoken to ebay this morning regarding this case. Say this:
This morning I have spoken to eBay about this as it is still ongoing and I wanted to know the best way forward. They have told me that as I am a private seller there is no obligation on me to accept returns just because something does not fit you. Ebay have been through the messages you have sent me and seen that the item is as listed so if you choose to file a fraudulent Item Not as Described they will refer back to these. I can see you are still unhappy though so as a goodwill gesture I will refund the cost of the item but not the cost of the postage either way - eBay will tell you this is you contact them to confirm this information with them. Please would you confirm what you would like to do as this is still ongoing and I want to get things sorted out before I go away for the weekend. Thank you.
If she wants to lose that much postage that is up to her. But you are not obligated to refund her this and eBay will tell you this as I have recently had this discussion over a private sale.
In the meantime, to send a PM, left click my name and choose send me a PM with that user name. I am all done out on fuitcake. I love you forever.
Oh, and I have the transcript relating to pretty much the same thing if you want to edit and change a few bits out and pretend it has come from them to you, LOL.0 -
She has now left me a neutral feedback that says ‘awaiting reply from seller. Wish to return item is this acceptable to her??’
This is so not true and I have reported her, pointing out her other feedback left for others. I doubt that ebay will actually do anything, but one can live in hope.
Oh, and since last posting on this thread she has left more feedback on other purchases as follows -
Neg - The jacket although well described is too big for me. Will donate it to Oxfam
You couldn’t make it up really0 -
Could you please pm me her eBay ID too as I sell clothes sometimes and dread the thought of her as a Buyer! Thank you in advance :-)0
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This is why I don't sell on eBay anymore."Facism arrives as your friend. It will restore your honour, make you feel proud, protect your house, give you a job, clean up the neighbourhood, remind you of how great you once were, clear out the venal and the corrupt, remove anything you feel is unlike you... [it] doesn't walk in saying, "our programme means militias, mass imprisonments, transportations, war and persecution."0
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Nightmare buyer :eek:
Could you PM me her username too?0 -
I have read most of this thread....really gets on my goat, that as a seller you are forced to deal with people like this. Ebay make next to no attempt what so ever to rein them in. The seller takes the hit in money and time.
i would have drawn the line a lot earlier. She needs to know she cannot get off with coming the ham.0 -
Please could you pm me the name as well, Ive sold 5 items of clothing today. 3 to the same buyer. Please dont let it be her!0
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