We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

PLEASE READ BEFORE POSTING

Hello Forumites! However well-intentioned, for the safety of other users we ask that you refrain from seeking or offering medical advice. This includes recommendations for medicines, procedures or over-the-counter remedies. Posts or threads found to be in breach of this rule will be removed.
📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!
The Forum now has a brand new text editor, adding a bunch of handy features to use when creating posts. Read more in our how-to guide

Come Fly With Me

123578

Comments

  • Chi-me
    Chi-me Posts: 329 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    bossymoo wrote: »
    Yikes Chi-me sounds dangerous!

    I put the kids to bed at 6.20 :( not happy with their behaviour today. I explained this morning that it was 7yrs ago today that Daddy and I got married. And that I was feeling a bit sad and missing him, and it would really help me today if they could be pleasant to each other. Well I don't know why I bothered. It's been one thing after another and I'm not sure how I've not imploded tbh.

    I put them in the bath just before 6, sat on the loo and explained I was disappointed they didn't feel they could try harder today. They both said sorry, they are nice now, yada yada. Within minutes they were at each other again. I silently washed faces then pulled the plug out. DS shouted at me and DD called me "naughty mummy". So I just shut the door.

    Seems it's not nice sitting in an empty bath. Within about a minute they were calling me back. I let them stew for a minute more then went back in. I've not spoken since :(. Just dried both off, pjs on, cleaned teeth and popped straight into bed.

    The only reaction they've had is when I raised my eyebrows at "but we are still going to the park tomorrow, aren't we?"

    Not an effing chance. Just today, one day, I wanted harmony. One sodding day. I get a text message off my mum, and the occasion is ignored by my father and brother. Effing marvelous.

    Pimms it is. Alone :(

    Aww, bless your heart sweetie, I'm tearing up hear for you :cry:
    :money:
  • mummyroysof3
    mummyroysof3 Posts: 4,566 Forumite
    Hugs for bossymoo x x
    Have a Bsc Hons open degree from the Open University 2015 :j:D:eek::T
  • froddington
    froddington Posts: 6,697 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    bossy - huge hugs xx

    Today would also have been my brother's 40th birthday - would have been one he** of a party. Instead, I am in on my own :(

    Joining you in a virtual salute to absent family and friends xx
    "There's only one way of life and that's your own" - Levellers

    "I'm feeling like a Monday but someday I'll be Saturday night" - Bon Jovi
  • Fmess
    Fmess Posts: 2,920 Forumite
    Seventh Anniversary 1,000 Posts Photogenic Combo Breaker
    Huge hugs bossy and froddington.

    bossy I'm sorry the kids were not sympathetic to the importance of today :(
    LBM = 07/09/13 Debt = £13339 (100% cleared)
    New roof and car £8557/£19003 New kitchen £396/£5039 Credit card Paid Student loan Paid
  • Fmess
    Fmess Posts: 2,920 Forumite
    Seventh Anniversary 1,000 Posts Photogenic Combo Breaker
    Successful day today, only job left is vacuuming and I have been actively avoiding it so it's no surprise! Hope you all have a good evenong
    LBM = 07/09/13 Debt = £13339 (100% cleared)
    New roof and car £8557/£19003 New kitchen £396/£5039 Credit card Paid Student loan Paid
  • lynnejk
    lynnejk Posts: 5,732 Forumite
    Rampant Recycler Debt-free and Proud!
    bossymoo wrote: »

    I put the kids to bed at 6.20 :( not happy with their behaviour today. I explained this morning that it was 7yrs ago today that Daddy and I got married. And that I was feeling a bit sad and missing him, and it would really help me today if they could be pleasant to each other. Well I don't know why I bothered. It's been one thing after another and I'm not sure how I've not imploded tbh.
    Not an effing chance. Just today, one day, I wanted harmony. One sodding day. I get a text message off my mum, and the occasion is ignored by my father and brother. Effing marvelous.

    Pimms it is. Alone :(

    bossy - huge hugs xx

    Today would also have been my brother's 40th birthday - would have been one he** of a party. Instead, I am in on my own :(

    Joining you in a virtual salute to absent family and friends x
    You're definitely not alone. I am just pouring a glass of wine so we can have a drink together (I'm 'home alone' as well). So a big hug and cheers me dears !


    Hope you all have a super Sunday :)
    Lx
    £10day.2014=3213/2015=3421/2016=3238/2017=2702/2018=498..APR=12.03/300
    GrocC.2014=2162/2015=2083/2016=218/2017=1996/2018=450..APR=17.13/200
    Bulk buy.......APR=233.76
    GC.NSD..2015=216/2016=213/2017=229/2018=39..APR=03/15
    SPC130:staradminx61..2014=1178/2015=1287/2016=4616/2017=3843
    OS WL= -2/8 ......CC =00......Savings = £13,140
  • Valli
    Valli Posts: 25,763 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Found you!

    *is relieved*

    Went to help out at the Food Market this morning and took some snaps for the FB page. Was bought a box of cupcakes and friend's mum gave me a bar of chocolate (feel like a child lol) and then came home. DD not good so we went fo a walk in the sunshine (exam stress) then I drove DS to manchester. Flew there - washed up after ALL the students and DS claimed his stuff needed rinsing through. :D
    So the Rhubarb and Ginger Jam hasn't been started. DD is at work so I'm picking her up shortly.
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • Valli
    Valli Posts: 25,763 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic

    So can anyone recommend a product that I can wipe on/off wall tiles, kitchen sink etc after cleaning so I can get that "hotel-fresh" shine?

    Thanks! :money:
    Car wax apparently! Don't 'trust' me on it - Iread it somewhere!

    2 loads washing dried in the sunshine BTW
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • bossymoo
    bossymoo Posts: 6,924 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    bossy - huge hugs xx

    Today would also have been my brother's 40th birthday - would have been one he** of a party. Instead, I am in on my own :(

    Joining you in a virtual salute to absent family and friends xx
    Fmess wrote: »
    Huge hugs bossy and froddington.

    bossy I'm sorry the kids were not sympathetic to the importance of today :(
    lynnejk wrote: »
    You're definitely not alone. I am just pouring a glass of wine so we can have a drink together (I'm 'home alone' as well). So a big hug and cheers me dears !


    Hope you all have a super Sunday :)
    Lx

    Ahh, you can always rely on a flylady. Thanks girls, a virtual brandy to us all. Tomorrow we pick ourselves up by the brastraps and carry on regardless :A
    Bossymoo

    Away with the fairies :beer:
  • OurLass
    OurLass Posts: 253 Forumite
    edited 5 May 2014 at 6:16PM
    OurLass wrote: »
    FOUND YOU!!:wave::wave::wave:
    Does this mean we haven't given up housework after all?:o
    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
    Pigpen bruised her arm......Chi-me scalded herself...:eek:
    HOUSEWORK IS DANGEROUS!!!! :eek: :eek:

    maybe we SHOULD give it up !! :D
    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    Hope you're not too sore ...:grouphug::grouphug:

    Also :grouphug::grouphug: much love to bossymoo xxx
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 353.6K Banking & Borrowing
  • 254.2K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 455.1K Spending & Discounts
  • 246.7K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 603K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 178.1K Life & Family
  • 260.7K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.7K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.