talk me down please

mellymoo74

We officially view on Tuesday
So Thursday wa my birthday and I got a sneak peek, it's tiny so that's something to overcome with Mr Moo
Oh we were also offered a one bed bungalow in a lovely area that we look at Wednesday lol

mellymoo74

Princess enjoying a cuddle

Last night walking dogs, kev is coming obviously lol
I'm out of cat sight hear "moooow, meooow, Moo" call him and get a fat cat gallop and a strange man laughing at the cat who comes when he's called

pollyanna_26

Belated happy birthday Melly.
Is the property you had a sneaky view of a ground floor flat? Bungalows tend to have a bit more floor space and as it's in a nice area I hope that meets your needs when you view it.
Your cats do make me giggle. I had a cat in my teens that came on walks. One of the long roads we walked down had trees every few feet along the pavement and he would run up each one , back down and then race to catch up with me.
pollyx

elsien

Bungalow also sounds like it has the added bonus of no attached idiot neighbours.
Really pleased that things are happening for you at last and that work have also started to show a bit of sense.

mellymoo74

No they're both bungalows Pol, floor space is less than our flat.
Only room larger is bathroom rest are a lot smaller

pollyanna_26

Well a bigger bathroom is a plus. Have you managed to reduce any of Mr Moos stuff and stem the tide of more stuff coming in?

pollyx

mellymoo74

Erm
Not really Pol
Still stuffed to the rafters

mellymoo74

Migraine sucks
I apparently can't work full time, del with Oh, and pack

pollyanna_26

Is Mr Moo someone who knows every single item he possesses such as a cable from a long defunct piece of tech? If not could you "lose" some of the stuff during the move . Keep the really important stuff but weed out the Justin Case things. If there's room in your friends shed maybe leave the stuff there clearly labelled to go to the tip later.


If he wants it all is he likely to be convinced that moving to somewhere smaller minus iffy neighbours and other problems means more peace and privacy and not being surrounded by stuff is a new start for you both and less stress and knowing where things are which matter and do have a use?
pollyx

mellymoo74

Tried explaining hoarding to his family
Let's put it this way, I did a small throw out when he came back from hospital, one of these was a box for something, he remembers that he HD that box. This was lost 2 years ago
Cant remember if he took his meds, can remember a a 7 year old box