talk me down please

pollyanna_26

Melly love it will be hard but your husband may feel more motivated to engage with his challenges if he can see you doing the same . He knows how hard you will find it and if you're both facing these challenges it could be a positive step for both of you . He worries about you as you do him so it will help you both .
Now we need housing to get their finger out as it will be harder for them to not do something when you've both done your share .
Glad you're enjoying peace - we just need to find a way to stop her getting back into the country :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
Love polly xx
Have you seen anything suitable on the housing site ? Once you have the appointments sorted it may be worth chasing the banding upgrade .

mellymoo74

Plan is to use MIND to force the banding change.

We are both a lot healthier this week when we are upstairsless



Just now

mellymoo74

Tigermonkey is feeling frisky (wonder if related to my cycle)

Rolled all over me
Grabbed and bited hand
Bited elbow
All done gently for him (as in only a couple of scratches) purring like a maniac

elsien

I haven't seen your list melly, although I suspect that for me it might trigger an automatic "up yours" type reaction initially.
But would it help to think of it more as a sort of rules of engagement scenario? Which makes it more about everyone having clear expectations about where you all stand so less room for misinterpretation along the way.
Kind of a "let's state the bleeding obvious and get it out of the way then we can get on with what we're all here for." However scary that is.

Definitely make the most of the upstairlessness. When's your first chance to have a proper lie in/stay in bed? Even if you don't want to it's just nice to know that you can.
As you can see, my plan to start being in:rotfl: bed by 11 is already going well.

mellymoo74

I stayed lying down all day today
Also did a dance of joy at my neighbour which was funny.
Oh
Still not Jamaica
Spain lol so they were mocking her.

It was stupid stuff elsien and triggered my 'your not the boss of me' thing.

CMHT tomorrow
Will chase MIND as we need the new support workers details.
Them and CMHT
Solicitors is next as well.

Sneezy tiger is waiting for me to come out to see him so kitchen for me now

elsien

That sounds nice, the chance to just chill for once.

I'm trying to persuade Gitdog that he needs to unpin me from the chair otherwise I'll be regretting it in the morning. Have a good day tomorrow.

mellymoo74

I think Gitdog and Froo are related

mellymoo74

Downside to lying down

No sleep for Mellys
Oh well
Watching monkey world whilst cuddling dogs

pollyanna_26

Morning Melly I'm rushing round getting ready to go out .
Just to hope all goes well with CMHT today .
I've been awake since 4 oclock . The wind is blowing gale force here and woke me along with big lightening flashes . Couldn't get back to sleep .
It looks as though the bad weather is sweeping in here in the north , we already have a weather warning so today and the next few days should be fun .
Speak to you later on .
polly xx

mellymoo74

Yep weather is bad
About to go out with monkeys
Xx