talk me down please

mellymoo74

I do think she worries about me so the fact it's bad is panicking her as well.

Even boo is a lap dog with me at the minute and he's always been all about OH

mellymoo74

New regime is irritating
I don't want 28 hours up

Tomcat was out for 24 hours
Abscess is back and has burst so bathed it will get him back to the pdsa on Monday (calling tomorrow to see if Monday soonest can get him in)

tunathe_cat

mellymoo74 wrote: »

They did, have used them they make no difference poor girl.
She works herself up when I'm not with her too the state she wees herself.

I might pm kylyr see if any books etc they recommend

melly

when our son was a baby in nappies (16 years ago) a friend had her mums dog when she went into a home and had this wee problem. - so when going out she put baby disposable nappies on and then a babies (sons) outgrown baby body vest so doggie could not tear nappy off and left some of her/mums preworn clothes.before washing! or what about on open cat tray with cat litter underneath with a turf of grass if they need grass to go on!

our cats have started weeing on bathroom mat - vets say no infection stress! so have bath mats on wash rotation as needed and have brought feliway plug in and sprays from amazon.

have finished shredding confidential waste of 35 years! hummed and arrahed over lots of receipts and cards/letters i have been through 2 lots of pink recycle bag reals and had numerous trips to skip with bags.
have wrote neighbours x cards just need to find time to deliver and aunts/uncles /cousins cards to various villages . Also need to put the cute robin pots with primulas in at the church yard

better get going hugs

mellymoo74

Still have Christmas cards to do Tuna you much more organised.

I was throws 2 or 3 times a day cos of my limpet dog.

pollyanna_26

Hi Melly Have you discussed the sleep issue with your doctor ? apart from everything else that's happening that's going to be pulling you down so much . There are ways to reset your body clock so may be worth looking into that . Husband and pets need to get the message that night is when you need to rest and recharge your batteries . Much of what you have to do is in the daytime so you need to have the rest and energy to be able to keep on top of things .
I hope you get sorted with the tooth , that again will be pulling you down and infection wise isn't good .
If you're doing it for the right reason a daily walk is helpful . you need head space and a chance to just be for a while . I know you must miss your working life and the social contact but maybe you will get that back in the future when you've worked your way through all the steps necessary to reach that point .
Meanwhile make your health and needs a priority for the present and try to sleep . The world wont end if you practice a little self care .
Love
polly :heart2:

mellymoo74

That's one use for a swivel bather.

mellymoo74

I see the GP on Tuesday poll will mention it then.

With regards to the tooth I am scared of dentist's I have a huge issue with stuff being put in my mouth (for obvious reasons) and I gip a lot.
I have so many scary things happening at the minute I don't know if I will cope. It's my usual GP I will speak to her on Tuesday morning.

Tomcat goes vet tomorrow abscess is not only back but it's a lot bigger. He's been very good and let me bathe it several times today which means it has burst but he's going to need stiching and debriding poor boy.

He's feeling very very sorry for himself.
I am sure when I call pdsa at 9 they will tell me to get him straight in so in he goes.




She has had catnip, not moved all day lol

mellymoo74

And walking is most definitely not for the right reasons.

Gotta be careful can no longer squat or bend without dizziness.

I almost left the thread again as I was finding it a bit tough that isn't fair to those of you who have invested in my recovery though so am being a big girl and pulling up my big girl pants. I am going to ignore questions I find difficult though, please understand that some I can't answer and some I won't.

tunathe_cat

mellymoo74 wrote: »

I see the GP on Tuesday poll will mention it then.

With regards to the tooth I am scared of dentist's I have a huge issue with stuff being put in my mouth (for obvious reasons) and I gip a lot.
I have so many scary things happening at the minute I don't know if I will cope. It's my usual GP I will speak to her on Tuesday morning.

Tomcat goes vet tomorrow abscess is not only back but it's a lot bigger. He's been very good and let me bathe it several times today which means it has burst but he's going to need stiching and debriding poor boy.

He's feeling very very sorry for himself.
I am sure when I call pdsa at 9 they will tell me to get him straight in so in he goes.




She has had catnip, not moved all day lol

wish mell and furbies well in the up coming appointments- I find like buses none for a while then a run of them!
my cat Tuna has got hump with us his supply of cat nip has been got by the frost he looks lovingly at the pot by the door and even sleeps on it and dreams .But gives me the cat stare

still moving bits around and noticing missing bits not returned! from insurance removers trouble is they used two different removers not sure who took what!
:mad:

mellymoo74

Tomcat really isn't very well
He's doing as he's told

Just bathing neck again then calling pdsa