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He's being all nice now. The rows were dreadful and can still be. I am sick of feeling so frustrated and messed up. Whenever I have spent time alone, I have felt better and within a week, he messed me up again.you say you have felt unloved for 26 years, did you really feel unloved in those early days? and if so, then you have certainly tried to make the marriage work, and maybe now its time to spend some time looking after yourself, making sure you are happyAn average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T
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I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.0 -
I too feel morbid and yes hopefully Britney will get some decent treatment nowEvening all, I shall reply to others shortly, but be patient, Britney's in hospital again, bless her, and I have a headache, so i'm not having a good day :rolleyes: My replies may be very morbid :rolleyes:
I also have some PM's to reply too, which I hope to get around too at some point.An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :rotfl: :rotfl: :eek::mad: :beer:
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He's being all nice now. The rows were dreadful and can still be. I am sick of feeling so frustrated and messed up. Whenever I have spent time alone, I have felt better and within a week, he messed me up again.
It's definitely not a stable situation. If he's an !!!!!! one minute and nice the next that'll mess you up even more.
It's time to stop letting people treat you like crap. There's only one person that can change your circumstances, and it's you.
*hugs*They say it's genetic, they say he can't help it, they say you can catch it - but sometimes you're born with it0 -
Miro - don't give up yet.
If you can get to the doctors or phone the Samaritans for the now.
Pester the doctor to find you are new counsillur or ring NHS Direct (08454647) and see if they can fast track you onto your local emergency mental health care, and see if a different CPN can get out to see you, it may be better if they can route you through the hospital based team rather than the GP surgery people.
Nobodies faces fit! Faces are ridiculous at the best time, I mean when you think about, all holes and blobby bits on the best of us! And trust me I have met some of the world's most 'beautiful people' and yes they had nice facial structures but they were pig ugly on the inside and yes, the old cliche is true about beauty being skin deep.
I'm not giving up yet. I was close to it though. I've always said, that if I don't find anything, whether it's romantically or something else meaningful, that when my flatmate moved on and my cats passed on, then i'd have nothing to live for. They are all still here right now.
I agree with beauty only being skin deep. Sadly, I only ever meet people who are shallow. They notice me for my worked out body etc etc, but don't really want to know the real me, and i'm someone who wants to be known for me, not the size of my arms!0 -
Thank you for your replies and you are right. I have been in this cycle for years. I can't talk to my mother, she would have me living next to her and under her control again.
I can't decide where to go. I don't know anyone or have a job. I know I could get one or do something if I didn't have this burden to bear. I don't know where to start.
What is the first thing I should do?An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :rotfl: :rotfl: :eek::mad: :beer:
I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.0 -
Hey Miro
Good to see you again but sorry to see you are so down.
There are many people on here and I'm sure in your circles who would miss you.
It is a miserable January day and understandably feel low - I haven't felt that great either but I read 'suicide is a permanent solution for a temporary problem', you are a very valued member on these boards and very happy to see you whatever mood you are in.
I can't offer any practical answer, except try and see someone to get any help like counselling or pills if u need them. Make sure you are warm and well fed in moderation and talk to us on here.
What i've quoted you said in bold is very true. I just hope one day i'll meet someone who is glad i'm still alive!
I am warm and well fed - flatmate likes the fire on and all I ever seem to do is eat 0 -
geminilady wrote: »Hi Miro,(((((((((((((((hugg)))))))))))))) we maybe "virtual" on here but we do care.Look at your last sentance above you tell us not to give up and that you know we can achieve what we want to achieve so BELIEVE IT yourself you are no "worse " than any of us and what
applies to us also applies to you.
I'm always harder on myself than anyone ever could be. I've done it for so long, it's part of who I am and I wouldn't know how to change it.
Crazy thing is, as a person, I like myself as I know i'm a good person. I'm just not special enough for anyone and only ever have been once, so something is not right about me.0 -
gillette147 wrote: »Miro mate,
You are funny and by your own accounts are always fending off the ladies with a stick or chair.
Life is ups and downs and not in equal measure. Stick with it because life can change as fast as a light switch. There are so many things you can try before it has to end.
Crime, relocation even badminton.
If things are truely at end it all proportions then what do you have to actually lose. The shackles are off and you can do anything you like with your life. Give it a go before you throw it away.
Take care chap.
I had a period of where I seemed to be attracting ladies. I think I must have seem confident as at that time one person made me feel alive, even if I knew it was going to end in disaster.
Life can change, but everything I try just.....fails!
We all need luck, and I need a nice slice of it right now!0 -
oh miro
IM sorry you are feeling soo low atm, but please believe me when i say there are loads of people that care about you.
I know it may not seem like you have many people, but you have all the people here hun. And i know you may think we are just usernames, but recently I have realised we are more than just usernames, we are real people, here we have a place where we can come when we feel no one else understand us. Maybe our 'real' friends dont understand, dont have the time, or merely ya just never see them. But here hun, in this virtual world, we all have someone. You will always have a friend here. Somewhere to come.
Please do not do anything as we all care about you
I have sent you a PM with my number and msn in, coz if you need to talk I am here. Even if you want to shout, or cry, or anything, i will just listen. Because sometimes thats all we need someone to listen.
Dont hesitate to get in contact, as i would prefer you talked/shouted/even screamed about things than to take that anger out on yourself
You are a very treasured person here, which shows in peoples posts to you
Im here if ya need hun
xxxxx
Thanks Rose, i'll reply to your PM a little later.
I just don't feel part of anything - here or in the real world 0 -
What is the first thing I should do?
http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/uk/crime/article3272994.ece
They say it's genetic, they say he can't help it, they say you can catch it - but sometimes you're born with it0
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