Depression Support Thread

Horace

Steph - get some immodium capsules for the runs - they work. You asked me for some advice - send me a PM and I shall try and help.

Perhaps I should open up my own advice column?

Horasio

I don't know how I am going to cope. We have someone coming to the house in 30 mins and people coming this evening. I don't feel well, bad cold and my OH has been verbally abusing and shouting at me. He always shouts and verbally abuses me when I don't feel well, and he calls me abusive as I am not on top form - big crime in my family. I can understand why people turn to drugs to keep on top form.

He will be all sickly nice in a few minutes making out it was nothing. I haven't been able to work for 25 years because of him and my illness. I am not allowed to be tired or ill. He starts on me. If we have people round, that is the kiss of death to a good day/evening too. I don't do much because I know he will do this.

I wish I was dead. I feel dreadful and have an abusive husband around till Monday morning. Don't even get me started on my Machiavellian mother.

shazrobo

bigugs ccstar, my ex was verbally abusive, still is, tells me he changed, then goes back to it, told me it was all in my head, and i imagined it, blamed my depression. you deserve better than this hun,
big hugs
shaz x

shazrobo

antronella wrote: »

Hope everyone has a good (if you can) weekend. Am not doing too well right now..may go back to Gp next week...only in work 1 day cos got hols. not looking forward to being off except for not having to cope with work.

hi antronella, so sorry to hear that your feeling so down, hope you feeling better soon, big hugs
shaz x

Horasio

shazrobo wrote: »

bigugs ccstar, my ex was verbally abusive, still is, tells me he changed, then goes back to it, told me it was all in my head, and i imagined it, blamed my depression. you deserve better than this hun,
big hugs
shaz x

They contribute 70% of the depression I reckon. Ironically he is from Wakefield too.

Have you left him?. We have to move out soon so can leave him but don't want to be near my mother either - she's a control freak. I married my OH to get away from her and he treats me this way, when I was ill and still does.

gario900

Must run now, going tae look at flats In Glasgow.
Was suppose tae be going out afterwards but just coming back home as had to much last night.

I hope that when I get back that thirs some good news waiting.

Have a gr8 day PPL.

Huggggggggggggzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

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Tiff_2

Hi guys!:hello:
How is everyone this afternoon? Morning sazzy!!!




Sorry I'm late but there's an EU regulation that states I'm entitled to a certain amount of catnaps and I have to fulfil it!

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BLINKY!!!!!

How are you hunnie? The lady from Del Monte, she say yes?
Ok - look, hun - I know you think you've got more important things to do than post here, but we haven't! There's a lot riding on this hunnie - don't worry - if all else fails, me, sazzy and ethel - and possibly gilly badger - will wrestle over you, in a pool of custard! You won't be alone blinky!

Psst - blinky......don't worry about the others, just tell Tiffy - here's a little incentive.....



Seriously though sweetheart - I hope all went well and that today finds you a very happy blinky.
Post when you can sweetie!
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

meyore

Having a bad day today. Been really horrible to OH and upset him now I feel awful. I keep testing him and its not fair on him.

antronella

meyore, sorry you're having a bad day..me too. Can't you tell OH what you tell us.. that its a bad day, not his fault and you're sorry for taking it out on him? that you love him and are glad he's there for you.

meyore

He says he understands but I just hate myself. Sitting watching football now trying to be a good girlfriend.