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Depression Support Thread

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  • shazrobo
    shazrobo Posts: 3,313 Forumite
    CCStar wrote: »
    They contribute 70% of the depression I reckon. Ironically he is from Wakefield too.

    Have you left him?. We have to move out soon so can leave him but don't want to be near my mother either - she's a control freak. I married my OH to get away from her and he treats me this way, when I was ill and still does.
    left him, but he still continues to turn up at my home uninvited, still tells me he loves me, and when i'm better i'll realise what a good person he is:mad: just wish he would stay out of my life, find it hard to be alone, cos we did have some good times, but we cant stay friends. overall the loneliness sure beats the way he made me feel, which were suicidal. sorry your suffering too
    hugs
    shaz x
    enjoy life, we only get one chance at it:)
  • juno
    juno Posts: 6,553 Forumite
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    I feel really ill today. I have bad stomach cramps and feel sick. Work was hell; one guy phoned in sick and so I ended up with far too much to do and not really feeling up to doing any. But I managed somehow.
    Murphy's No More Pies Club #209

    Total debt [STRIKE]£4578.27[/STRIKE] £0.00 :j
    100% paid off :j

  • BigMummaF
    BigMummaF Posts: 4,281 Forumite
    Oooo Lordy...just seen the time:eek: Where does the day go when you're not having funangry-smiley-303.gif

    It's lovely to know that you're allperson-smiley-1063.gif & you are each having an individual mummalove0047.gif
    for being so understanding earlier in the week...you guys are the Best:o







    Full time Carer for Mum; harassed mother of three;
    loving & loved by two 4-legged babies.

  • BigMummaF
    BigMummaF Posts: 4,281 Forumite
    OK..down to business!

    Gilly Badge! You know that you are in the right, so stick your ground...tell the little scroats that if they have an industrial injury after ignoring your professional advice, they won't be entitled to a single brass farthing...see if that violent-smiley-1393.gif

    Hope you had a lovely B'day Blinky, & Very Best Wishes for Future Happiness......or am I being a tad premature in assuming she said yes? I won't need to dip into the Hat Fund cuz I'm gunna be the :happylove & carry the little silk pillow with the rings on & be sick all over the Best Man:rotfl:

    It's interesting to see just how far spread we are....I'm in West Sussex...& I have no idea where any of yooze are so you're safe from an unscheduled visit for now. I'm still looking for a compass, but failing that I'll get mesen a sat-nav.......You Have Been Warned!!!!confused-smiley-17530.gif

    To each & all this crisp Saturday evening, I wish you Well. Peaceful Minds folks. BMFx
    Full time Carer for Mum; harassed mother of three;
    loving & loved by two 4-legged babies.

  • gario900
    gario900 Posts: 268 Forumite
    Still no word fri Blinky i see!
    Hope everything went well M8!

    Hope everyone is chilling having a nice relaxing evening.

    Huggzzzzzzzzz

    :A :A :A
  • Tulip
    Tulip Posts: 29,324 Forumite
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    :hello: Everyone,

    I have been so busy today I havent had time to come on until now,hope all is well,hope Blinky got a yes to the proposal :) I am watching Casualty in a bit,Got the Concert for Diana dvd this morning so I am very happy :)

    *hugs* to everyone that needs one


    love and light,

    Katie xxx
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    shazrobo wrote: »
    left him, but he still continues to turn up at my home uninvited, still tells me he loves me, and when i'm better i'll realise what a good person he is:mad: just wish he would stay out of my life, find it hard to be alone, cos we did have some good times, but we cant stay friends. overall the loneliness sure beats the way he made me feel, which were suicidal. sorry your suffering too
    hugs
    shaz x

    That sounds annoying. I don't like anyone turning up unexpectedly, leave alone someone who messes you about.

    I got thro today but didn't need my OH being a prat first thing. I am going to have a day off tomorrow and it will be Monday again, bliss!. Our son got a job, a temporary driver and installer which should be good.

    I am in a position to get my own place to rent very soon (we have no choice but to leave and have choices) but worry about getting a place that might be noisy and live next to bullies. I haven't been terribly lucky with neighbours for a while, so would like to live away from them but anywhere quiet enough is massive and expensive. If I stay with my OH, it will justify the cost but he will ruin it. I can't win. My ideal is to get a place that isn't huge and in a quiet location.

    The viewers who came were nice but I don't think they will buy the place. It seems very expensive and needs work doing to it.

    I dealt with an annoying shop assistant today, once I am upset by my OH, I become a superb*tch. I don't like myself that way and although I got a result, I didn't like having to resort to it. It was also raining which also got me down.

    Thinking of you Blinky:)
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • juno
    juno Posts: 6,553 Forumite
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    I have worked out that by going into work today whilst feeling awful I have earned an extra £150. Actually, it's slightly more than that because I wouldn't've got paid for today if I wasn't there and I haven't included that. But I picked up a lot of extra hours for the next 2 weeks, and someone else woulda taken them soon if I hadn't.

    I also hope they appreciate it.
    Murphy's No More Pies Club #209

    Total debt [STRIKE]£4578.27[/STRIKE] £0.00 :j
    100% paid off :j

  • slowlyfading
    slowlyfading Posts: 13,429 Forumite
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    Just found out my grandma has had a stroke, so am feeling upset. hope everyone else is okay.
    Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.
    Personal Finance Blogger + YouTuber / In pursuit of FIRE
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    Sorry to hear about that - hope she gets well soon.
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
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