Depression Support Thread

Tulip

Hey Saz,

How are you? Hope you are ok and that you had a nice evening,My evening has been fine takes a smartie from the jar and munches one


love and light,

Katie xxx

Sazbo

Tulip wrote: »

Hey Saz,

How are you? Hope you are ok and that you had a nice evening,My evening has been fine takes a smartie from the jar and munches one


love and light,

Katie xxx

Hey Katie! :wave: I'm doing good, had a good evening - hope you did too. Go easy on the smarties tho - tiff's watching;):D

Sazzyxxxx

Tulip

Sazbo wrote: »

Hey Katie! :wave: I'm doing good, had a good evening - hope you did too. Go easy on the smarties tho - tiff's watching;):D

Sazzyxxxx

Saz,

I have just finished munching on the smartie so Tiffy will never need know having a relaxing day tomorrow I think


love and light,

Katie xxx

Tulip

Hello Everyone,

well I am off now,

Night! Night!

chat tomorrow

love and light,

Katie xxx

Miroslav

Tiff wrote: »

Hi miro!:hello:
How's things with you hun?

quote=Miroslav;:wave:
Well, i'm no Brad Pitt. I don't think I am anything special. I do get some attention sometimes, but my flatmate says i'd get more if I didn't look like someone who'd bite someone's head off as when i'm out, i'm always prepared for battle so don't smile
Lol.
And, when you're ready, you can change that angel. It's natural to be on the defensive when you've had a rough time - it's a way of protecting yourself so you don't get hurt again. When the time is right, you'll balance everything out angel. It's amazing just how much we give away with our body language - I probably look like a fluffy rottweiller!:D

...Poor and happy is much better. I just have to find a nice young lady who accepts that I just have bad experiences and I should hate women, but I don't, just certain personalities. I have high standards because of my partner who passed away. Certain standards such as a good caring personality and the ability to make me laugh!
Omg, miro hun!:j
You just said the most positive and helpful things that anyone could say to you to try and help you - and you said them to yourself!:T Cut this bit out and post it over your mirror to remind yourself when you're really low.;)

I'm not sure I could turn down someone who needed saving again. I wouldn't want to let her down, whoever she was, when in reality, I know I shouldn't get involved. I see your situation though, and sorry it happened
I know your intentions are honourable angel, but dating someone who is so distressed like that, is not likely to be a
person ready, or able, to start a relationship. By all means, I think we should help where we can, but make sure that you don't make yourself too vulnerable.
Yes people do help each other through hard times, but if we start falling for someone who's broken down and who are not their true selves because we can identify the pain they have, we may be setting ourselves up for more heartache, especially if we're not quite ready.

The only relationships i've had since my partner and daughter passed away
was 15-18 months (last 3 months she'd moved out but were still seeing each other) and 'S' for 3 months at the end of the last year. Not alot in 15 years
It's no competition angel. It takes however long it takes hun.;)
You say it's not a lot in 15 years, but it shows you the possibilities miro - some people give up on the idea altogether. When you had these relationships, I bet you could never see yourself having another relationship after all you'd been through - and you were wrong.;)
Like it or not miro, you are a little stud muffin!:D :T

I just don't think many females wants caring,
wrong
they want money, looks and status.
not all of us
I have no money,
don't care
my looks I don't think are anything,
others do
I am unemployed,
you're not the only one
I don't drive
makes you environmentally friendly to date!
and one or two things physical I need sorting out
I won't show you my list.
and I can't do that on my own as going to GP is scary when it's your body that isn't right and then operations on my own :eek:
Make that appt sweetheart - whatever it is is not going to just disappear. Get it over with so you can get on with life without having to worry about your physical health. All you have to do is be honest about your fears with your dr hun.

Anyway, I have hope, just very little.
/quote
And that's all you need sweetheart.

Thinking of you hun.
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

Hi Tiff :wave:

Hope things are okay with you, or at least as well as they possibly can be!

Don't like being on the defensive though:o If you're a fluffy rottweiller, i'm a boxer dog who looks like it's licking it's out pee off a stinging nettle :rotfl:

Those things I said, I believe, I just don't meet people who agree with them. I'm born in the wrong generation

I'm not going to go for someone so damaged again, although I can't see anyone remotely sane liking me for me as a person, let alone me actually liking them too!:o

:rotfl: Stud muffin :rotfl: I know it's no competition, and I really like my own company and I may not be ready for a relationship, I just don't have a mother or anyone else who cares. It's not neccesarily a relationship I need, a female friend who is a lesbian will suffice so we can talk about girls :rotfl: I won't ever be good friends with a bloke after my childhood and I get on better with females anyway, when I actually get on with people! I just haven't had a 'soulmate' or someone close for so long, the past 2 relationships have been all about them, sod Miro :rolleyes:

My experiences are of females who want looks, money and all material things. I've met very few who aren't that way. My flatmate isn't so bad, but nothing will ever happen there, gladly! Plus she is all about herself anyway in the main.

I may get to the GP one day, too worried to do it though and my GP's have never been fully understanding.

I'm all in limbo again.......waiting for this 'time' to come

Sazbo

Hey miro :wave: Not doubting your experience at all hunni, i'd like to think we know each other better than that. But have to agree with tiff, they/we aren't all like that, not by a long chalk. There's no golden ticket, wish there was, I'd have taken it;) All any of us can do is keep trying........

Sazzyxxxxxxxx

geminilady

Sazbo wrote: »

Heya gem! :wave: Great to see you hun! Well... i did some of the chores, so not a total waster:o:D Sun came out in London today - quite a nice day in the end, although i wasn't out much in it. Sorry you had to go to work today hun but look at it this way - tomorrow is wednesday - halfway though the week :j and halfway to the weekend... at least, that's how i always look at it anyway! How's things with you? With 'N'?

Much love,
Sazzyxxxxxxxxxxx

Yes you are right half way to the weekend:D must try and make an effort to go out.I have a workmate i have been out with a couple of times.Thing is i have spent so many years stopping in i have got out of the habit,but i know if i want to meet someone i have to get out there.Nobody is going to come knocking on the door.Things with N are still the same we are just text friends i have to except that whatever he is looking for it is not me and i cannot change that.I had a very bad week last week was way down but it was the time of the month(sorry guys):o and as i am the right age for the menapause i think my hormones are out of sink, normaly i just feel a bit blue.Anyway feel a lot better now just hope it was a one off.Have you any plans for the rest of the week or are you just glad of the break from work?

Miroslav

Sazbo wrote: »

Hey miro :wave: Not doubting your experience at all hunni, i'd like to think we know each other better than that. But have to agree with tiff, they/we aren't all like that, not by a long chalk. There's no golden ticket, wish there was, I'd have taken it;) All any of us can do is keep trying........

Sazzyxxxxxxxx

Hi Saz :j

Hope you are well and the tube is still being graced with your presence/prescence :T

I know not ALL women are like that, just the ones i'm unfortunate to meet. It means I have no trust anymore. It's gonna take one helluva woman to convert me :rotfl:

:wave:

Sazbo

geminilady wrote: »

Yes you are right half way to the weekend:D must try and make an effort to go out.I have a workmate i have been out with a couple of times.Thing is i have spent so many years stopping in i have got out of the habit,but i know if i want to meet someone i have to get out there.Nobody is going to come knocking on the door.Things with N are still the same we are just text friends i have to except that whatever he is looking for it is not me and i cannot change that.I had a very bad week last week was way down but it was the time of the month(sorry guys):o and as i am the right age for the menapause i think my hormones are out of sink, normaly i just feel a bit blue.Anyway feel a lot better now just hope it was a one off.Have you any plans for the rest of the week or are you just glad of the break from work?

Honestly, I'm the same. You get into the habit of staying in, becomes a hassle to go out. Not much planned for this week, tbh hun, yes really glad for break from work. Gotta get a few chores done and that, then friday might go to Southend with my folks!:D LOL watch out Southend! :beer::j:rotfl:

You take care of yourself.

Sazzyxxxxxx

Tiff_2

Miroslav wrote: »

Hi Saz :j
...It means I have no trust anymore. It's gonna take one helluva woman to convert me :rotfl:
:wave:/quote

Hi miro!:hello:



Ready when you are! :eek:

Sorry angel - just joking - couldn't resist!:D
I scared myself there too!:rotfl:
Hope you're well hun.
Much Love,
Tiff xxx