The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

picklekin

Suuuure code sure... And I just have the archers on to make the house feel less empty...

I made fudge last night and its making me better, I made a LOT of fudge, good crumbly stuff. Can't take today off, but I don't work Fridays and then I have a whole week in Yorkshire with nothing to do!

tea_lover

Yay, back on the list!!

codemonkey

picklekin wrote: »

Suuuure code sure... And I just have the archers on to make the house feel less empty...

I made fudge last night and its making me better, I made a LOT of fudge, good crumbly stuff. Can't take today off, but I don't work Fridays and then I have a whole week in Yorkshire with nothing to do!

Haha. My dad always claimed he hated soaps and but if they were out anywhere he'd bug my mum to go home so they didn't miss Corrie. DH watches HO eve when I'm not home and records it if he's going to be out.

Week in Yorkshire sounds lovely. We used to go camping in Yorkshire when I was a kid.

ricegirl145

Welcome Claretsgirl - hope your stay here is short (for the right reasons).

Hope everyone else is doing ok. Really feeling for you PM - you've been through so much.

Afm, I got upset yesterday when a girl in my team at work announced that she is pregnant. I tried to just be happy for her but the selfish part of me just wanted to scream that it's not fair - why not me?! Told my OH later on and that I was sad as I want to be the one going off on maternity leave and his response was "well hurry up and get pregnant then"! Like I'm not trying! I know he didn't mean anything by it but it did make me wonder whether he secretly thinks the delay is my fault even though all tests have been normal so far. I'm really struggling just now. Glad I've got my next FS appt in 2 weeks cos i just want to know what the next step is and move onto it.

Gelly123

Hi Claretsgirl, welcome over here and as others have said, hope your stay is short for all the right reasons. I think we both had MC's around the same time in January - massive hugs x

Ricegirl - know how you feel, very similar here and I've got one friend who's just had a baby (3 weeks ago), one due in October, one in December and another told us last weekend that they're due in March.

Still no sign of anything for us after 22 months trying and 2 MC's this year - still hoping but not looking promising and no help available as "we managed to get pregnant" but that doesn't help as I couldn't stay pregnant. Will be 36 in Feburary and body clock is ticking

Hugs ladies - I don't understand what many of you are going through but always lurking, reading and thinking of you.

Gelly
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good_vibes

Hi ladies,
Got my norethisterone, will be starting it on the 19th.
At present feeling nervous.

jazz25_2

Hi can I please join. I have been ttc for 14 months. I have pcos and am on clomid.

pinkteapot

Our other two embies haven't survived to be frozen.

frozenpenguin

Hello jazz :hello: As we've all said you're welcome to join but we hope you don't have to stay here for too long! Feel free to ask anything you like Is this your first month on Clomid?

Excellent news goodvibes :T Fingers crossed this is your time xx

Huge hugs pink, we had no embies the first time round either, it's such a hard thing to deal with. You just have to keep thinking, 'your little embie is in the best possible place it can be' although I'll be the first to admit, it's easier said than done.
All of us on here will be your cheerleaders and think positive thoughts for you when you can't do it yourself xxxx

codemonkey

pinkteapot wrote: »

Our other two embies haven't survived to be frozen.

Hugs pink. It's ok. You won't need them anyway because you have super 10 embie on board, happily burrowing away and attaching and doing embryo stuff.


Oops. Hello jazz. Didn't see you there. I'm code and I attend to people's t-rex needs in here.