The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

isla_red

Ouch that's expensive pink!

Argh PM

tea_lover

We had two put back last time but we didn't even know that was an option till 2 mins before...wasn't the most discussed decision! I'll just be glad if there's anything to put back when we get there. I'm assuming that they'd call to cancel if necessary so working on 'no news is good news'.

Big hugs for your OH pink, hope his day goes ok.

ETA, I've had piles for years! Glamour does not live here :rotfl:

isla_red

No news is good news! Fingers crossed here for you

pinkteapot

tea_lover wrote: »

ETA, I've had piles for years! Glamour does not live here :rotfl:

I'll see your piles and raise you fissures! Like trying to poop razor blades. We're such a sexy bunch. :rotfl:

DH's appt was at 9.45. His dad sent me a text to say he'd gone down on time. Feeling so guilty for not being there but his appts take out a whole day of work. I'm going to the next one with the consultant in June when they'll go through all the results, etc.

Oh! Was just starting to worry as I wrote that and got another text to say he should be done in 5 mins or so.

Wonder_Woman

pinkteapot wrote: »

I'll see your piles and raise you fissures!

:rotfl: someone always has to go one better thanks for sharing, you ladies are amazing - don't feel such a leper now!

pinkteapot

tea_lover wrote: »

We had two put back last time but we didn't even know that was an option till 2 mins before...wasn't the most discussed decision!

At our consultation they said they'd only put one back in for our first cycle. If the first cycle doesn't work, they'll "consider" putting two in on the second.

They said they don't want any risk of twins, even though twins might sound great to us (yes!!).

tea_lover

We'd always been told they only put one back, then on the day they went for two. I'm 35 this time so they may want to do 2 again, if we have 2 that is.

My dad and OH's mum are both twins so we always thought we'd get more than one.

isla_red

I was always told only one until EC and then all they spoke about was putting 2 back. We had to decide the day before ET what we wanted to do.

It's weird because every meeting prior to that they said they would only do 1 back because of my age (32) so not sure what prompted the change.

Glad your OH is getting on okay pink!

pinkteapot

Woohoo!! All done and no sign of Crohn's (what they were looking for).

Now we just need a BFP to add to the celebrations.... (I'll be back here crying on CD1 on Wednesday or Thursday.)

tea_lover

Great news pink, hope he has a quick and comfortable journey home.