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Weekly Flylady Thread 20th January 2014

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  • Wow thank you so much for the tip. When I put the WM on tomorrow I will try it out. I would never have thought of this! :T

    You are very welcome. Thats the beauty of this thread, we are all here to help each other.

    I forced myself to do some flying today - and I really didnt want to. Didnt go to dog walking group because the weather was so awful and regretted it afterwards because I think it would have done me good.

    Bossy, sounds like you are all having far too much fun to be bothered with the flying - enjoy.

    And Valli, beggars belief really doesnt it.

    Right, time to get ready for bed I think. Need to shift DS2 because I think he might be asleep on the sofa. He will not go to bed no matter how tired he is. Oh what its like to be 13!
  • Valli
    Valli Posts: 25,530 Forumite
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    decogecko wrote: »
    Agree totally - words fail me.

    My dad got married and didn't invite me, my brother or the rest of the family but had a party despite the fact they didn't want a fuss. Still hurts.
    :o

    gits

    thoughtless gits
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
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    Thank you Honey Bear
  • Valli wrote: »
    :o

    gits

    thoughtless gits

    Yep - and he still doesn't understand why I'm hurt by his actions. Some interesting things came out though like 'When your mum left I considered you & your brother left me too' (we were 6 & 5 !!!!!! :mad: ) But TBH that does explain a lot of his behaviour over the years.
  • Dustykitten
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    Taxi service finished for the day.

    Just want to finish copying some figures onto a table and then up to bed.
    The birds of sadness may fly overhead but don't let them nest in your hair
  • pigpen
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    Honey_Bear wrote: »
    Pigpen, have you considered seeing a doctor? You seem to be staggering from one bout of unwellness to another and it must be incredibly wearing. I know you have no time for health care professionals, but to quote a meerkat, 'I's worried about you


    I'm not really ill it us just a string of nothingness really. I think I am probably just run down/tired really.


    Pixie being pesky tonight.. I jus want to sleep. before I cry preferably.
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  • Valli
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    decogecko wrote: »
    Yep - and he still doesn't understand why I'm hurt by his actions. Some interesting things came out though like 'When your mum left I considered you & your brother left me too' (we were 6 & 5 !!!!!! :mad: ) But TBH that does explain a lot of his behaviour over the years.
    It 'fascinates' me that 'supposedly' adult people are unable to separate 'ADULT' choices.
    I know it's not all male thing - it cannot be -but 'men' evaluate all these choices differently from women/mothers.

    My ex used to write, on his Xmas cards to the Vallikids that he 'hoped they would get lots of presents'

    in itself 'fine' except that he'd stick a £20 note in the card and that was it.

    So, clearly he hoped 'someone' would buy HIS children lots of gifts, and wrap them, and ensure they were there on xmas morning with NO involvment from him.

    Eventually I informed himthat if he wanted HIS children to have LOTS of presents he ought to buy some.

    He stopped writing that in the card!
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • Kaz2904
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    Hello all :). Well, I have been mad busy. Finished my 6 nights on Thursday morning absolutely bushed. Then out on Thursday evening.
    I had Dr's Friday morning, I have torn ligaments in my hip :eek: no wonder it's been so sore. Then I was back into work on Friday night for 2 extras.
    When I finish in the morning, I shall go home and start the lists because I don't want to sleep all day and won't want to get up at 12! I'm off Sunday at Monday night, then have 2 more extra nights. Then 1 off and 6 on.
    Thank god DH's taken over cooking!
    See you all later xx
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  • kazwookie
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    Morning

    My green house moved in the storm by about 2 foot, OH and I have no idea currently how to move it back, as there is nothing really to push on, as it is all glass, one large panel is broken as well so need to pick up the glass, next time I am at home when it is day light is Thursday, (ie day off from job 2) so I have for now fenced it off, to keep cat off the area. (and no he won't jump over the fence as he only has 3 legs and doesn't do jumping.!)
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  • Kaz2904
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    edited 26 January 2014 at 12:00PM
    Natty68 wrote: »
    Monday - Master bedroom & landing
    15 minutes...
    Strip and wash sheets
    Vacuum and turn mattress before replacing clean sheets
    30 minutes to spare...
    Wash windows
    Got an hour...
    Sort through a cupboard.. make it neat and tidy and get rid of what you no longer wear/need/use
    Extras
    • Sort through a box of junk fom the landing
    • Binbag dance
    • HHI
    Tuesday - Kitchen and Dining Mess
    15 minutes...
    30 minutes to spare...
    Empty cutlery drawer.. wash cutlery tray and replace everything neatly.. get rid of all the odds and sods that shouldn't be in there..
    mop the floor
    Got an hour...
    Wipe dining table and replace cloth if needed
    De-web and fluff the room
    Extras
    • Wash the windows
    • Wipe down paintwork/sideboards/units in dining room
    • Clean filters and detergent dispensers
    • HHI
    Wednesday - sprog/spare room
    15 minutes...
    30 minutes to spare...
    Wash window
    De-web and dust the room
    Got an hour...
    Binbag dance
    Extras
    • HHS&S of the upstairs of the house..
    • HHI while watching some gubbins of the gogglebox
    • HH catch-up!!
    Thursday - bathroom and cruddy study!
    15 minutes...
    Declutter the floors and desk!
    30 minutes to spare...
    Mop
    Polish the bath/shower/loo/basins/keyboard/mouse/monitor etc.. defrag/virus scan/spyware scan the pc while this does
    Got an hour...
    Shine mirrors and screens and windows
    Clean any radiators/fires
    Extras
    • deweb and dust these rooms!
    Friday - FLING - Living room, Hall and stairs
    15 minutes...
    Declutter floors
    30 minutes to spare...
    Wipe any glass.. and electricals
    Wipe sofas
    Got an hour...
    Wash down the paintwork and front door.. both sides!
    Wash any windows
    Extras
    • Do some filing
    • Binbag dance

    Sounds like there's been some pretty awful weather around :(. It's *just wet here but the bin was over when I got home this morning.
    WM on, DW emptied and on again. Kitchen cleaned. DS not impressed when I made him clean bottom cupboard doors but hip hurting this morning. Am being referred for physio so it should help.
    Right, crack on!

    ETA: am not wiping front door as it's belting down out there!
    Debt: 16/04/2007:TOTAL DEBT [strike]£92727.75[/strike] £49395.47:eek: :eek: :eek: £43332.28 repaid 100.77% of £43000 target.
    MFiT T2: Debt [STRIKE]£52856.59[/STRIKE] £6316.14 £46540.45 repaid 101.17% of £46000 target.
    2013 Target: completely clear my [STRIKE]£6316.14[/STRIKE] £0 mortgage debt. £6316.14 100% repaid.
  • Crowdpleaser
    Crowdpleaser Posts: 1,277 Forumite
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    Morning all. Bit of a write off yest. bathroom tackle today and will also sort out dining table.

    Kids got whole box of lego emptied on floor and are making ships with it.

    Ironing to do later.

    Roast to do later.

    Hugs to all who need. Shoulder punches to those who dont hug.... xxc
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