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Breaking Through, Travelling On

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  • Cheery_Daff
    Cheery_Daff Posts: 17,097 Forumite
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    Aw KC, that must be very difficult (((((((((((()))))))))))))) I hope you're able to feel peaceful about it whatever happens xx
  • Karmacat
    Karmacat Posts: 39,460 Forumite
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    Thank you both, much appreciated :kisses3: no news yet.

    So, today is about focus! Focus, woman :D

    - clear shopping away.
    - get the recycling out of the house and into the bin for tomorrow :)
    - pruning
    - Hunger Games/Buttercup blog
    - t'other blog, about flooding, I think. Drafting only, on both counts.

    The phrase "contributing to my future" comes up, which sounds both portentous and pretentious, but there it is :D That's what planning is! No paid work today, so its all for me :)
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
  • Karmacat
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    Contact made! I offered this weekend or any time the week after next as times when I'm available, and they plumped for this weekend because of what the consultants had been saying. It sounds like I *will* get to see her, and I'm very glad of it.
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
  • Watty1
    Watty1 Posts: 6,718 Forumite
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    So a date has been fixed. This is a difficult journey for all those touched, sending love xx
    Made it to mortgage free but what a muddle that became

    In the event the proverbial hits the fan then co-habitees are better stashing their cash than being mortgage free !!
  • rtandon27
    rtandon27 Posts: 5,611 Forumite
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    Oh KC that is just lovely - very glad for you that the visit will be made!
    4 YEARS 10 MONTHS DEBT FREE!!! (24 OCT 2016)
    (With heartfelt thanks to those who have gone before us & their indubitable generosity.)
    ...and now I have a mortgage! (23 AUG 2021)
    New projection - 14 YEARS 10 MONTHS LEFT OF 20 YEARS (reduced by 15 mths)
    Psst...I may have started a diary!
  • greent
    greent Posts: 10,749 Forumite
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    Karmacat wrote: »
    It sounds like I *will* get to see her, .


    Am glad to hear that xx
    I am the master of my fate; I am the captain of my soul
    Repaid mtge early (orig 11/25) 01/09 £124616 01/11 £89873 01/13 £52546 01/15 £12133 07/15 £NIL
    Net sales 2024: £20
  • Karmacat
    Karmacat Posts: 39,460 Forumite
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    Thank you all; such a tricky situation. Her husband will pick me up from the local train station, so I'll have another chat with him.

    Tried to focus on my own work today, a bit awkward, but not bad:
    - followed up query, another two hours work next week, before my staycation :)
    - did a good first draft of one blog post, half of another.
    - biiiiiiiiig chunk of gardening - I'm liking rain when it enables me to pull out grass roots more easily :) and then splodging topsoil over things to give the worms a chance. I did this combo in several places - I'm going to be able to buy some low-growing herbs from the local garden centre at this rate :j:j:j

    Shopping is cleared, but rats, I forgot about the recycling, I hate sorting that in the dark. Better hurry ...
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
  • Karmacat
    Karmacat Posts: 39,460 Forumite
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    Morning! Caught up on an hour's sleep, yay, and *still* had time to also catch up on putting the recycling out :o after I got stuck at the computer. Looked at the set of books I had out to declutter, ad decided I want all of them but one. Back on the shelves they go :) Dishwasher and washing machine have both done their thing this morning too, and its spring, its spring, I can feel it in the air :j:j:j I can also see it in the number of spiders' nests I have to remove from the porch, but thats a price I'm willing to pay :rotfl:

    So, hmm, the rest of today:
    - Buttercup's blog post.
    - relocate to my office upstairs, to scan things, and tidy up at the same time, it's a bit of a nightmare in there.
    - more gardening! The stuff I did yesterday is really visible in terms of the effect it had, I'm chuffed, so I can do more of that :)
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
  • SueP19
    SueP19 Posts: 1,882 Forumite
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    I have in my sticky mitts the Kon-thingy-declutter book :D:D

    It's quite thick but will have read and start a declutter plan :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: like you though things may well be rescued from the declutter pile
    Debt Free Diary - Second Chances! Life in a Tourer........Debt free, building a savings pot
  • Karmacat
    Karmacat Posts: 39,460 Forumite
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    I never read it :rotfl: I just caught the ethos from the thread on here :j but that thing of "does it spark joy" is great. I'm willing to let something go, but if, when I hold it, it says "this is part of a project for when I retire in just under six months, and I love the ethos anyway" then it stays :D

    Just been tidying ... and today, by the way, is the end of week 25 in the retirement countdown :beer:
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
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