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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 13

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  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    January:

    yay.gif= 7 Days AF

    m0806.gif= 14 days AF

    Smilies_Bananas_ChristmasDancing.gifyay-1.gif= 21 days AF
    t4239.gif= 28 days AF

    bravo.gif= 31 days AF

    smiley-score010.gifbiggrin.gif = target achieved


    Alcohol Free Days


    Alex
    2/28
    Barny1979 15/25yay.gifm0806.gif
    CathyBird 18/31
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    CountingPenniesClaire 15/27
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    DansMam 18/31
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    DebJay
    18/31 yay.gifm0806.gif
    DizzyImp 18/31 yay.gifm0806.gif
    Doshwaster 12/24
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    Effyb4 7/20
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    [Deleted User] 18/31
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    Gien 17/31
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    Honey Bear 19/31
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    HR_money /31

    JHiggins 3/23

    Jjef /18

    JulieTheMuse 16/24
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    Lincs 4/31
    Mackeroo 8/10
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    Maggie 7/15
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    Maman
    7/10
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    Mari 1/20
    NewMe 14/23
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    PenniesFromHeaven 6/23
    Piggles 9/18
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    Poppety 2/11
    Pricey
    12/20 yay.gif
    Satchmo
    17/31 yay.gifm0806.gif
    SandyPan
    14/29 yay.gifm0806.gif
    Shaggy 7/17
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    SmallHoldingSister
    15/31 yay.gifm0806.gif

    Smiley_77 6/31

    WBF 2/10
    Yellowmonkey 18/31
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    Alcohol Low Days

    Shaggy 14/23
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    Everyone Welcome! It's never too late to join....

    Please highlight your AFDs in Red

    Don't hesitate to let me know if I've made a mistake!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • debjay
    debjay Posts: 2,091 Forumite
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    19/31 for tonight please.
  • 19/31 please Shaggy. Xxx
  • yellowmonkey
    yellowmonkey Posts: 7,052 Forumite
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    19/31 please Shaggy
  • maggiesoup1
    maggiesoup1 Posts: 186 Forumite
    edited 19 January 2016 at 7:18PM
    What I can't seem to get over is drinking too much early evening. I do wait for wine o'clock (which is 6 p.m. in these parts) but then I drink the first glass(es) much too quickly usually while prepping dinner. Anyone else find this?


    Hi Maman, yes this is/was EXACTLY my problem. I'd be checking the clock every 10 mins until 6pm then whoopee I'm allowed that glass of wine while prepping dinner. Problem was, drinking on an empty stomach made me lose my appetite fairly quickly, especially on the second glass of white, so I'd end up eating less as I'd mentally be juggling the calories. My resistance would then be low so after dinner I'd continue drinking, but add a few bags of crisps to the mix.... I've calculated that I probably drank/nibbled about 700 calories a night JUST IN BOOZE/CRISPS!!! Neither wonder I've lost 4lbs since I stopped this madness:)

    So, having identified that 6pm was (and still is) my nemesis, I have a cup of tea until I sit down to dinner and once I've eaten a decent plate of food I don't feel like a glass of wine.

    I'm hope this is the key to my success, this is half way through the second week and seems to have done the trick, but I'm not too getting complacent yet :eek:

    Another AF night please Shaggy (sorry, I can't work out how to highlight red on this new laptop !!!)
  • Effyb4
    Effyb4 Posts: 258 Forumite
    Thanks for all the support about Ofsted everyone.


    I am going to declare early tonight 8/20 please
    £1000 Emergency Fund #175 - £598/£1000
    PAYDBX 16 #134 - £2139.00/£6961.85
    Roadkill Rebel #22 85p
  • Poppety
    Poppety Posts: 18 Forumite
    3/11 please.

    Almost everyone's tale sounds familiar. The wine o'clock time, dinner prepping time, add the crisps and never mind time. It's all there.

    Tonight I was tempted. Long day, meetings, marking (which I haven't finished and will get up even earlier to do). I am exhausted and the temptation is great. However, I've cooked the dinner and now I'm in the bath. (Bet you're glad we're not on Skype!) I'm languishing here as long as I can to stave the crave.

    So, declaring earlyish to help myself.
    I still feel I'm about to fail at any moment though.

    Kind regards
    Poppety.
  • 18 /AF days Feeling great. this no drinking lark is good for the waistline too.
  • gien
    gien Posts: 1,649 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    No booze for me tonight!

    I know exactly what everyone means about the first class of wine whilst cooking, losing your appetite and then snacking - is a pattern I follow too.
    I'm finding the not drinking actually surprisingly easy one I've said 'no' for the evening so that is helpful.

    Also a big hello to all the new people and all the returners.
    Trying to keep in budget.

    2270
  • Dizzy_Imp
    Dizzy_Imp Posts: 2,782 Forumite
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    19/31 please Shaggy x
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