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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 13

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  • cathybird
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    maman wrote: »
    I wobbled myself tonight and I think if I hadn't already posted I might have succumbed. Nothing stressful, just travelling home with all the lights sparkling in wine bars, people having fun etc.

    That gives me twinges where I momentarily wish I had the freedom too - which are a bit frustrating while they last - they do pass though, if you ignore them. Actually every day there's usually a random point where I think "love a drink, oh I can't have one :(" But it does pass and you forget it.

    The other thing I always think is that it helps to give up watching TV at the same time as you give up drinking. Everyone on TV dramas seems to drink like a fish - wine with meals at home, wine with meals out, spirits in bars etc. In fact I don't give up watching TV as it would make the evening even longer (perhaps a good thing?) but it is another trigger I could do without.
  • shaggydoo
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    edited 8 January 2016 at 10:41AM
    JHiggins91 wrote: »
    Hi there I'd really like to join this challenge if possible? I'd like to aim for
    20 AFD if possible? I've already done 3 but I won't count them

    Hi welcome-wagon.gif

    I'll put you down as 3/23 if that's OK?
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • I used to drink a litre and a half of sherry at the weekends. up until I was diagnosed with breast cancer, I am absolutely 100% convinced excess alcohol caused this cancer.
    All I have been through and i STILL drank a bottle of wine the other night. I am so angry with myself for being so weak.
    I only drink a drop in the ocean now compared to before. but I want to stop completely as I'm terrified of getting cancer again, I may not be so lucky next time.
  • shaggydoo
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    lincs1205 wrote: »
    Hi , please could I join?. I'd like to declare4/31 please.

    welcome-wagon.gifand Good Luck.
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    smiley_77 wrote: »
    NO AFD for me. I have already failed failed failed and feel totally
    :( ate loads of rubbish and far too much booze. Disappointed.
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    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    So can I try for6/23

    welcome-wagon.gifand Good Luck!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    I used to drink a litre and a half of sherry at the weekends. up until I was diagnosed with breast cancer, I am absolutely 100% convinced excess alcohol caused this cancer.
    All I have been through and i STILL drank a bottle of wine the other night. I am so angry with myself for being so weak.
    I only drink a drop in the ocean now compared to before. but I want to stop completely as I'm terrified of getting cancer again, I may not be so lucky next time.

    welcome-wagon.gif Julie. It's not too late to join our January challenge if you like - do you know how many AFDs you have done in January so far? If not there's 24 days up for grabs.
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • I would like to join please. I have drank just the once on the 6th Jan:(
  • Dosen't sound much I know, but I need to be able to learn to live without red wine and sherry as otherwise I'll be continually worrying about my health. vicious circle.
  • shaggydoo
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    January:

    yay.gif= 7 Days AF

    m0806.gif= 14 days AF

    Smilies_Bananas_ChristmasDancing.gifyay-1.gif= 21 days AF
    t4239.gif= 28 days AF

    bravo.gif= 31 days AF

    smiley-score010.gifbiggrin.gif = target achieved


    Alcohol Free Days


    Alex
    2/28

    Barny1979
    4/25
    CathyBird 7/31
    yay.gif

    CountingPenniesClaire 1/31

    DebJay 7/31 yay.gif
    DizzyImp 7/31 yay.gif

    Doshwaster /24
    Gien 7/31
    yay.gif
    Honey Bear 8/31
    yay.gif

    HR_money /31

    JHiggins 3/23

    Jjef /18

    Lincs 4/31

    Mackeroo 2/10


    Maman
    3/10


    Mari 1/20

    NewMe 4/30

    PenniesFromHeaven 6/23

    Piggles 4/18


    Pricey
    3/20
    Satchmo
    7/31 yay.gif

    SandyPan
    3/29

    SmallHoldingSister
    /31

    Smiley_77 3/31

    WBF 1/10
    Yellowmonkey 7/31
    yay.gif

    Alcohol Low Days

    Shaggy 5/23





    Everyone Welcome! It's never too late to join....

    Please highlight your AFDs in Red

    Don't hesitate to let me know if I've made a mistake!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
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