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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 13

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  • shaggydoo
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    Roll up, Roll up. A New Month, A New Challenge.
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    26 days up for grabs!

    Everyone Welcome!!!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • Fruball
    Fruball Posts: 5,788 Forumite
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    Calling early for this evening as I know I will not be drinking :)

    4/20 please Shaggy :)
    Putting these winter preps here so I don't forget! 

    Curtain pole installed in the living room
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    Add shrink film to the kitchen door & insulate
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    Blind for the bathroom
    Find wrist warmers & the wool socks!
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    Buy vest tops to go under clothes and PJs
    Buy nets for bathroom and kitchen
    Buy or make blind for kitchen
  • satchmo1
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    Can I change my March target to 21 please Shaggy? It feels a bit like a cop-out, but it's more realistic..


    Calling in early with 5/21, although I've just thought to myself "I wish I could have a very large glass of wine, and could I also have ear plugs please". Mum and I have been out on key errands since 10.30 am and I've just sat down with some soothing classical music and my laptop. I deliberately took her requested newspaper into her room, but she's come and sat down next to me and started talking about the news items. Now I feel like a heel because I told her I needed to concentrate - I was composing an update about a respite home to email to my siblings. Truly, I love her, but I also love peace and quiet. Bad Satchmo
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  • sukeyboo
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    satchmo1 wrote: »
    Can I change my March target to 21 please Shaggy? It feels a bit like a cop-out, but it's more realistic..


    Calling in early with 5/21, although I've just thought to myself "I wish I could have a very large glass of wine, and could I also have ear plugs please". Mum and I have been out on key errands since 10.30 am and I've just sat down with some soothing classical music and my laptop. I deliberately took her requested newspaper into her room, but she's come and sat down next to me and started talking about the news items. Now I feel like a heel because I told her I needed to concentrate - I was composing an update about a respite home to email to my siblings. Truly, I love her, but I also love peace and quiet. Bad Satchmo

    You are definitely not 'bad Satchmo' - it must be an incredibly difficult situation for you and I admire you for not resorting to 'a very large glass of wine' - not sure I would have your willpower. Sending you (slightly dodgy!) hugs :grouphug:
  • Barny1979
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    6/26 AFDs tonight :)
  • stoplurking
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    6/25please Shaggydoo and thanks for keeping score
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  • Barny1979
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    1st Smiley Day - 7/26 AFDs :)
  • Miss_Piggy
    Miss_Piggy Posts: 16 Forumite
    Good morning all

    No update on scores for me as we went out for a meal last night which I had wine with. Today will definately be AF though as I feel tired and a bit irritable and am absolutely certain that will not be improved with wine!

    Satchmo - as sukeyboo said , you are most definately not bad satchmo! Everyone needs their own space and peace and quiet at times.

    Miss P
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  • Honey_Bear
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    (((Hugs))) Satchmo. Full-time carers have a tough time getting any time to themselves and it is incredibly wearing - I speak from experience. Only a good person can do it well, and you just need a break.


    6/31 please, Shaggy.
    Better is good enough.
  • Ellsbel
    Ellsbel Posts: 469 Forumite
    Joining in the group hug for you Satchmo - caring is so tough and you're entitled to whatever "me" time you can get.
    miss piggy, I'm in just that same irritable mood today! Everything is just "grrrr.." !! ;)
    Declaring early so I stick to Tea to keep calm:D 7/31 please Shaggy.
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