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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 13

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  • maman
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    Ellsbel wrote: »
    5/22 please - very tempted tonight as not in the best of moods! so if I declare early, I won't give in to it.

    Good for you. We never said it was easy but you'll feel great afterwards!:D
  • aneres
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    8/26 please Shaggy
  • satchmo1
    satchmo1 Posts: 3,301 Forumite
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    9/17 AFDs for last night. The wine sirens were trying to tempt me to get a bottle from the stash in the boot of my car (for Christmas), but the weather helped as it was way too wild to venture out.
    What would you get if all you got was what you were thankful for?
  • Barny1979
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    11/15 AFDs today :)
  • Ellsbel
    Ellsbel Posts: 469 Forumite
    Thank you maman and Honey Bear:)
    I'm finding it so motivating being part of this virtual support group:)
  • Joining please x
    Had an early present given to me I would love to open it but I know it'll be gone instantly and stupid shifts at work are a nightmare enough without a hangover..
    So 20 more days left so going for 15/20 as a target.
    I don't normally drink but when I do I do keep going so imposing another limit on myself to include at least a litre of water every day and when I do drink, no more than a pint/equivalent every hour..
    January 2025 - Debt £20,006
  • Honey_Bear
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    edited 11 December 2014 at 5:52PM
    Welcome GrassGirl!

    Ellsbel, the mutual motivation is exactly why I stay! Without this thread and by that what I really mean is the contributors, to be honest, I'd be lost.

    OH is away for three nights and while I considered having a Becks Blue, I didn't bother to open one last night. I very rarely drank on my own, but found the company of other adults in the evening always led to alcohol, and in my case with a depressing frequency of too much. Mind you, I also never drank during the day and have found myself really looking forward to the evening ritual of the BB, to the point of actually opening one a couple of weeks ago at about 4.00pm.
    Better is good enough.
  • Ellsbel wrote: »
    Thank you maman and Honey Bear:)
    I'm finding it so motivating being part of this virtual support group:)

    I'll second that Ellsbel and well done for resisting temptation :T
  • Bad news for me, first two weeks of housing benefit will be £0! No idea why, I'm on 24hours and earn £6.50 so have to go sort it tomorrow morning :(
    Won't open the wine though, but I am going to have a cheeky take away once I've done an hour of housework. Grr but being good. Ish x
    January 2025 - Debt £20,006
  • maman
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    grassgirl wrote: »
    Bad news for me, first two weeks of housing benefit will be £0! No idea why, I'm on 24hours and earn £6.50 so have to go sort it tomorrow morning :(
    Won't open the wine though, but I am going to have a cheeky take away once I've done an hour of housework. Grr but being good. Ish x


    I do hope you get your finances sorted soon but meantime any cutting down you do will save you money. :T for making a start now rather than leaving it to New Year.


    No drinking here tonight.


    4 AFDs please Shaggy.
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