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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 13

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  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    edited 6 February 2017 at 3:17PM
    Honey_Bear wrote: »
    At 50+ my body simply couldn't cope with what I was doing to it any more.

    Re women, getting older and sleep - I read that women sleep less / develop sleep problems as they get older because of a lack of progesterone - this does indeed appear to be true (google women sleep progesterone) so women's ovaries produce less progesterone as they age and this effects their sleep....how sad! I miss sleeping like a teenager!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    Alcohol Free Days

    Arkers /15

    BaileysOnIce

    Barny1979
    5/21

    CathyBird 3/21


    CuppaTea
    2/20

    DebJay 4/24


    DizzyImp
    3/TF

    Dprovan
    /18

    Eltee 2
    /20

    ElusiveLucy
    1/15

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    [Deleted User] 5/25


    GlasgowGirl

    GreenKaren
    4/12

    Honey Bear
    6/28

    Honey Bee


    LoveASale 2/15


    Lulubelle 2/26

    MaggieM 1/15


    Maman
    2/10

    Munchin


    NewMe 3/TF

    NoSuperWoman 4/28

    PettyPace

    Poor Single Lady 3 /21


    Pricey
    /22

    RolandTheRoadie 4/28


    Sandypan
    /14

    ScatterBrain
    /28

    Shaggy 2/17


    Smiley
    /28

    SoWorried /12


    SukeyBoo
    3/12

    WBF 2/13



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    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    Alcohol Free Days
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    BaileysOnIce /10

    Barny1979
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    CathyBird 22/21
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    [Deleted User] 31/31
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    GlasgowGirl 25 /31
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    GreenKaren
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    Honey Bear
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    Honey Bee 9/31
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    LoveASale 13/9
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    MaggieM 31/31
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    Maman
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    Munchin 15/31
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    NewMe 5/23

    NoSuperWoman 3/3
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    PettyPace 2/28

    Poor Single Lady 19/22
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    Pricey
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    RolandTheRoadie 30/30
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    Everyone Welcome! It's never too late to join....

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    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    Roll up, Roll up. A New Month, A New Challenge.
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    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • 5/28 as of last night. Had a twinge in Lidl but couldn't find the compulsion in my body so decided to leave it. That was enough to keep me AF.

    Thanks for your support Honey Bear. I had an interesting experience on Fri evening, a night when I would usually drink, I felt shakey and' worked up' but not about anything. I realise that I was using booze to damp down these sorts of feelings rather than use the anxiety and stress reduction techniques that actually work and keep working!

    I did eat a generous slice of cake mind you, but one habit at a time!
    '...it is only kindness that makes sense anymore ' Naomi Shihab Nye
  • loveasale
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    Thanks HB ,, I think I drink because of all 3 !!
    Funny as when I'm not drinking I'm really not bothered ! I think ,, well actually I know one day I will totally AF ! And won't miss it !
    3/15
    :money: I will never be rich but I'm happy :rotfl:
  • Need to get back on it. 2/15 tonight please.
  • debjay
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    5/24 for tonight please.
  • maggiem
    maggiem Posts: 1,952 Forumite
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    Struggling a bit to get back to not drinking, had wine with meal tonight. Not too much and didn't want to keep on drinking it even so. I am away a lot of February and unless I get over wine with a meal out I am. Not going to make target so tomorrow I intend to be AF.
  • 4/21 please

    Planned drinks out tomorrow but minimal, controlled and few, not as many as I can drink until I fall over.
    2017- 5 credit cards plus loan
    Overdraft And 1 credit card paid off.

    2018 plans - reduce debt
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