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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 13

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  • debjay
    debjay Posts: 2,091 Forumite
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    12/31 for tonight please.
  • Barny1979
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    8/25 AFDs today
  • Dizzy_Imp
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    12/31 for me tonight
  • 11/30 for tonight please.
  • cathybird
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    Morning all, 10/21 for me please. :)
  • loveasale
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    Oh dear me ,,, I've been lurking for a while now,,
    I'm a drinker , a binge drinker, I normally do a bottle of wine a night , sometimes 2 at weekends :eek:
    I used to be a smoker and a heavy one at that, gave up about 6 years ago and will never so much as have a puff again!
    So back to the booze,,, I'm a real MSE ,, I like , well love the finer things in life , but never pay full price , and save money in tins and so forth , so firstly I find it odd ( even to me ) that I will always find the money to buy wine ,, my goodness I dread to think how much I waste :(
    I do however get discount on it as a family member works for large store chain and is able to give a discount to someone else !
    Secondly , why do I do it ?
    Depression ,, makes it worse ? Habit ? Boredom ?
    Funny if I have a AFD on a Monday I can normally do so until Thursday , I try my upmost to have 2 or 3 AFD a week , I've always kept a littl diary ,,sadly I've only managed 2 this month, and I'm full of cold so I can't taste or smell so still wonder why ?
    I'm going to sign off now as don't want to bore you all , I will write more later, as I feel this may help me ,,, I really hope so !
    :money: I will never be rich but I'm happy :rotfl:
  • loveasale
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    Thank you all in advance :A:A
    :money: I will never be rich but I'm happy :rotfl:
  • CuppaTea
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    The half bottle of wine was winking at me last night. I succumbed. �� back on it tonight though.

    Well done to all those who are on track. Ive slipped a bit this week but i keep reminding myself it doesnt have to be all or nothing, there is an in between.
    Live for the moment and plan for the future
  • Eltee12
    Eltee12 Posts: 768 Forumite
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    Morning All


    10/25 for January


    10/200 for yearly total please


    Been doing lots of walking since Christmas - a couple of 15-20 mins sessions when at work and longer walks at weekends - and no, I'm not now 600 miles away from where I started!


    regular walking seems to have helped the dreaded BD, quality of sleep is starting to improve and I like to think it's a combo of the walking and the cutting down on alcohol.


    also noticed that when I do have a glass or two, it is only a glass or two and I enjoy it more, rather than glugging it down.


    blimey, that's the most I think I've 'said' on the boards, I normally just lurk, post and run :rotfl:



    Have a good weekend everyone

    El
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    2018 CCC #11 £38.40/£250
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    Debt-free since Nov 2017
  • Eltee12
    Eltee12 Posts: 768 Forumite
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    loveasale wrote: »
    Oh dear me ,,, I've been lurking for a while now,,
    I'm a drinker , a binge drinker, I normally do a bottle of wine a night , sometimes 2 at weekends :eek:
    .......

    Secondly , why do I do it ?
    Depression ,, makes it worse ? Habit ? Boredom ?
    Funny if I have a AFD on a Monday I can normally do so until Thursday , I try my upmost to have 2 or 3 AFD a week ,



    Wow loveasale, this sounds like me, especially the depression, its a nasty bu&&ar


    just take baby steps, pace things to suit you and don't be afraid to ask for help/advice either on here or in real life.


    Good luck :)


    El
    2018 AFD 23/240
    2018 CCC #11 £38.40/£250
    Mortgage-free since 2013

    Debt-free since Nov 2017
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