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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 13

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  • cathybird
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    Posting 2/10 AF days today. Feel a bit like a lightweight when everyone is ramping up massive AF totals for Jan but think it's best I keep it light for now.

    Green Karen, don't feel like that because Dry January is a pretty popular thing and in fact it can be a good way to kick off the year but it's way more important for you to work out something you can sustain over time. On this thread and the savings threads elsewhere on MSE you do see some people who set big targets for themselves and they meet them for a bit and then they seem to get discouraged and just vanish. I've always thought it is better to set a lowish target and beat it, and then slowly to work up to a higher target - or not - whatever works, really. The main thing is always to keep going, and not slide back into old bad habits, because they're just so hard to escape when you are mired in them. That's my two bobs' worth, anyway. :)
  • sukeyboo
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    Will definitely be AF tonight so declaring early on 4/14 please Shaggy
  • Honey_Bear
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    .Feel a bit like a lightweight when everyone is ramping up massive AF totals for Jan but think it's best I keep it light for now.

    I'm with Cathybird on this. It isn't a competition against the other posters, it's about being realistic about what you can achieve and having the stamina to last the month with a bit of everyone cheering each other on.

    9/31 please, Shaggy.
    Better is good enough.
  • shaggydoo
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    Afternoon :hello:

    1 more AFD for yesterday.

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    Shaggyx
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    PettyPace wrote: »
    Hi,
    I would like to join this January drink free challenge. I had a four-day session from Hogmanay to 3rd January and feel it's now time to address my drinking and a good start would be dry free days for the remaining days of January.
    So please can you add me to the list, at 2/28....

    welcome.gifand you're on the list! Good Luck!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    Honey_Bear wrote: »
    I'm with Cathybird on this. It isn't a competition against the other posters, it's about being realistic about what you can achieve and having the stamina to last the month with a bit of everyone cheering each other on.

    9/31 please, Shaggy.

    Green Karen I'm with them - it's not a competition. TBH I hardly ever register other posters totals, I'm just focused on myself! :D
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    edited 9 January 2017 at 1:54PM
    January 2017
    yay.gif= 7 Days AF

    dance013.gif= 14 days AF

    Smilies_Bananas_ChristmasDancing.gifbanana.gif= 21 days AF

    :A = 28 days AF

    cloud9.gif = 31 days AF

    smiley-score010.gifdancinsmiley.gif = target achieved


    Alcohol Free Days
    Arkers 8/TF yay.gif

    BaileysOnIce /10

    Barny1979
    4/25

    CathyBird 6/21


    CuppaTea 7/22
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    DebJay 8/31 yay.gif

    DizzyImp 8/31
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    Dprovan
    5/30

    Eltee
    4/25

    ElusiveLucy
    7/30 yay.gif

    [Deleted User] 8/31
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    GlasgowGirl /31

    GreenKaren
    2/10

    Honey Bear 9/31yay.gif

    Honey Bee 9/29
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    MaggieM 8/31
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    Maman
    3/10

    Munchin 6/31

    NewMe 3/23

    PettyPace 2/28

    Poor Single Lady 4/22


    Pricey
    2/22

    RolandTheRoadie 7/30
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    Sandypan
    /22

    ScatterBrain 5/30


    Shaggy 4/17


    Smiley 7/31
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    SoWorried 6/30

    SukeyBoo
    4/14

    WBF 2/14



    Everyone Welcome! It's never too late to join....

    Please highlight your AFDs in Red

    Don't hesitate to let me know if I've made a mistake!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    2017 Targets
    50x50?v=v2= 50 Days AF

    dance013.gif= 100 days AF

    Smilies_Bananas_ChristmasDancing.gifbanana.gif= 150 days AF

    :A = 200 days AF

    cloud9.gif = 250 days AF

    clapping.gif= 300 days AF

    smiley-breakdance.gif = 350 days AF

    lueknl3d124.gif = 365 days AF

    smiley-score010.gifdancinsmiley.gif = target achieved


    Alcohol Free Days

    Arkers


    Barny1979
    /275

    CathyBird /252


    CuppaTea
    /200

    DebJay /TF

    DizzyImp
    /TF

    Dprovan
    /250

    Eltee
    /200

    ElusiveLucy


    GreenKaren
    /120

    Honey Bear /365MaggieM /185

    Maman /TF

    Munchin

    Poor Single Lady


    Pricey
    /250

    RolandTheRoadie /364

    Sandypan
    /200

    ScatterBrain
    /350

    Shaggy /260


    Smiley
    /360

    SukeyBoo
    /150

    WBF /150



    Everyone Welcome! It's never too late to join....

    Please highlight your AFDs in Red

    Don't hesitate to let me know if I've made a mistake!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    Roll up, Roll up. A New Year, A New Challenge.
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    SET A
    Target_logo.jpg
    357 days up for grabs!

    Everyone Welcome!!!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • maman
    maman Posts: 29,825 Forumite
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    shaggydoo wrote: »
    Green Karen I'm with them - it's not a competition. TBH I hardly ever register other posters totals, I'm just focused on myself! :D


    I understand how you feel Green Karen. I'm proud of others with their brilliant totals and I'm really pleased for them. It makes me mindful of my own totals in comparison but just enough to keep me on track.


    No plans to drink today. Last week I managed all four nights but this week is much more social.


    5 AFDs please Shaggy.
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