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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 13

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  • shaggydoo
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    November

    smileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=646= 7 Days AF

    fireworks.gif= 14 days AF

    Smilies_Bananas_ChristmasDancing.giffirework.gif= 21 days AF
    pp_bday_112.gif= 28 days AF

    goldstar.gif= 30 days AF

    smiley-score010.gifbiggrin.gif = target achieved


    Alcohol Free Days

    Arkers
    14/15 smileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=646fireworks.gif
    Barny1979
    17/20 smileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=646fireworks.gif

    Be The Change /24

    BornToBeFree 9/28
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    CathyBird 19/21
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    CuppaTea 16/18 smileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=646fireworks.gif
    DebJay 11/15 smileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=646

    Debt Now /30
    DizzyImp 18/25 smileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=646fireworks.gif
    Eltee 25/30
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    ElusiveLucy
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    GreenKaren 4/14

    Honey Bear 25/30 smileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=646fireworks.giffirework.gif
    MaggieM 14/14 smileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=646fireworks.gifbiggrin.gif
    Maman
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    Markman /8

    NewMe 3/TF
    Pricey 17/22smileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=646fireworks.gif
    Sandypan
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    Shaggy 13/17
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    Smiley 17/30
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    WBF 5/14



    Everyone Welcome! It's never too late to join....

    Please highlight your AFDs in Red

    Don't hesitate to let me know if I've made a mistake!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    December

    :rudolf: = 7 Days AF

    christmas-smiley-138.gif= 14 days AF

    Smilies_Bananas_ChristmasDancing.gifweihnachten_smilie_151.gif= 21 days AF
    sangels_100-166.gif?w=150&h=106 = 28 days AF

    newyearplz.gif?2 = 31 days AF

    smiley-score010.gif_dontpetdrytrees__by_clairebearer.gif = target achieved


    Alcohol Free Days

    Arkers
    /15

    Barny1979


    Be The Change


    BornToBeFree


    CathyBird /21


    CuppaTea


    DebJay

    Debt Now

    DizzyImp /22


    Eltee
    /15

    ElusiveLucy


    GreenKaren


    Honey Bear
    /31

    MaggieM /14


    Maman
    /10

    Markman

    NewMe

    Poor Single Lady /28

    Pricey


    Sandypan


    Shaggy /17


    Smiley


    SukeyBoo
    /12

    WBF



    Everyone Welcome! It's never too late to join....

    Please highlight your AFDs in Red

    Don't hesitate to let me know if I've made a mistake!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    Roll up, Roll up. A New Month, A New Challenge.
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    SET A
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    31 days up for grabs!

    Everyone Welcome!!!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • 12/13 for last night for me please. Not sure what I am going to do tonight, so there is a small possibility I might still make target for November


    I am going for 10 AFD in December, but given I am on hols for part of it, Christmas bash at work and my birthday as well as Christmas itself I think my chances of making 10 are remote
    What goes around comes around.....I hope!
  • CuppaTea
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    17/18 for me please.
    Live for the moment and plan for the future
  • cathybird
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    Late call as I went out for lunch with a friend today but only a juice to go with it and haven't drunk anything, going to bed shortly so 20/21 for me. :)
  • i have done 7 days AF today. But I still feel exhausted and not sleeping properly. Dreading tomorrow as not sure I can avoid it - girls xmas lunch followed by a hen do. Hen do is people I don't know very well so may feel need a drink. I should probably aim not to drink at the lunch but just to have a few on hen do if feel the need.

    It is hard. I don't drink anywhere near as much as I used to and now probably only once per week but even 1 glass (with food) makes me feel awful the next day. I am wondering whether my body is subconsciously rejecting alcohol as I'm now 38 and we are going to start trying for a baby next year - maybe my body's way of forcing me to give us the best chance?! The subconscious is a powerful beast.
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  • Have ballsed up a tad. Drank both yesterday and today, oops, but I am thinking about my drinking more.

    Yesterday, was full of good intentions. Had a half day at work as it was my daughter's 6th birthday and wanted to get her from school. All was fine until just before dinner when I thought, ooh wouldn't wine b nice? Mum didn't disagree and so I went a bought two bottles. And drank one of them.

    Woke up feeling a bit p00y today and thought, you can either go bk to the way u were and drink or treat every day as a new beginning (i.e. Not just think of I screw up, oh well, I'll start next Monday, month, year, whatever).

    Had every intention of not drinking today, but then was offered a jd and Coke round a friend's hse and I drank it. And of course, once u start and it's defo not going to b a af day, might as well make the most of it. Restrained myself a little and only had two beers after, but still completely unnecessary.

    Start again tomo and will attempt a af day. Weekends r defo harder though.
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  • Barny1979
    Barny1979 Posts: 7,921 Forumite
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    18/20 AFDs for last night
  • Honey_Bear
    Honey_Bear Posts: 7,533 Forumite
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    26/30 please, Shaggy.
    Better is good enough.
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