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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 13

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  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    Afternoon :hello:

    1 more AFD for yesterday.

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    Shaggyx
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    November

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    Smilies_Bananas_ChristmasDancing.giffirework.gif= 21 days AF
    pp_bday_112.gif= 28 days AF

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    Alcohol Free Days

    Arkers
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    Barny1979
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    Be The Change /24

    BornToBeFree 9/28
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    CathyBird 20/21
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    Debt Now /30
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    Everyone Welcome! It's never too late to join....

    Please highlight your AFDs in Red

    Don't hesitate to let me know if I've made a mistake!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    December

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    Alcohol Free Days

    Arkers
    /15

    Barny1979
    /15

    Be The Change


    BornToBeFree


    Brizzled /17

    CathyBird /21


    CuppaTea


    DebJay /15

    Debt Now

    DizzyImp /22


    Eltee
    /15

    ElusiveLucy
    /10

    GreenKaren /10


    Honey Bear
    /31

    MaggieM /14


    Maman
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    Markman

    NewMe

    Poor Single Lady /28

    Pricey


    Sandypan


    Shaggy /17


    Smiley


    SukeyBoo
    /12

    WBF



    Everyone Welcome! It's never too late to join....

    Please highlight your AFDs in Red

    Don't hesitate to let me know if I've made a mistake!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    Roll up, Roll up. A New Month, A New Challenge.
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    SET A
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    31 days up for grabs!

    Everyone Welcome!!!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • CuppaTea
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    1 more for me pls Shaggy.
    Live for the moment and plan for the future
  • Barny1979
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    20/20 AFDs today
  • debjay
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    13/15 for tonight please.
  • maggiem
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    Woke up feeling a bit p00y today and thought, you can either go bk to the way u were and drink or treat every day as a new beginning (i.e. Not just think of I screw up, oh well, I'll start next Monday, month, year, whatever).

    Had every intention of not drinking today, but then was offered a jd and Coke round a friend's hse and I drank it. And of course, once u start and it's defo not going to b a af day, might as well make the most of it. Restrained myself a little and only had two beers after, but still completely unnecessary.

    Start again tomo and will attempt a af day. Weekends r defo harder though.

    I know exactly what you mean Pollyanna but well done for deciding to treat each day as a new beginning. I think I have lots of times just thought blow it I'll start again next whenever and you will be amazed to hear that rarely happened :rotfl:

    I have been drinking a Friday and Saturday but have 2 more AFDs for Sunday night and today. I am really trying, both nights in restaurants as I am away for work and offer of free ouzo on arrival (which I love) but resisted as I knew that would lead on to one or two glasses of wine etc. Not sure I actually feel better for not drinking - probably because I am eating everything in sight but hoping my liver appreciates the effort. Think I will try and change my target for December - sorry Shaggy to 16 AFDs in December. That way I can think > 50 % of the month I have not been drinking. And again thanks to this thread; it helps concentrate and make fewer excuses so thank you everyone who contributes and especially Shaggy for all the hard work 👍
  • Arkers
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    Good morning everyone,

    16 AFD please Shaggy.

    Arkers x
  • sukeyboo
    sukeyboo Posts: 2,348 Forumite
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    Declaring early on 14/12 for today please Shaggy
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