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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 13

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  • debjay
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    10/20 for tonight please.
  • Arkers
    Arkers Posts: 1,587 Forumite
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    Good morning everyone,


    1 AFD for last night please Shaggy.


    Arkers x
  • Dansmam
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    7/30 for me please Shaggy
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  • cathybird
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    Morning all! 8/15 for me please Shaggy! :)
  • maman
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    Still no temptation here.


    18 AFDs please Shaggy.
  • ManPants
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    11/29 af.

    m.p x
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  • shaggydoo
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    Afternoon :hello:

    1 more AFD for yesterday.

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    Shaggyx
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    July

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    Alcohol Free Days

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    Everyone Welcome! It's never too late to join....

    Please highlight your AFDs in Red

    Don't hesitate to let me know if I've made a mistake!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • Lotstogain
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    Hi all.


    Basically - 12/21 days not including tonight yet ..


    It really helps listening to everyone's journeys. I have a slight confession - after deciding to go AF I slipped up on Friday night and had 3 G and Ts. I have been AF free again since then but am tempted tonight if the weather holds. I have got an appraisal at work tomo which also might be pushing me in that direction. I'll see. Last week I managed ok at home but out 'on the town' with the OH was really difficult. I started out with just a tonic water but all I could think was "I'm not drinking alcohol and I really want to".


    Anyway, good news is that I stopped at the 3 G&Ts and didn't have wine back at OH's which is a killer for me. So I probably consumed less alcohol last week than I have done for about 7 years. ( I managed to give up for about 12 weeks back then). Another plus note is I've tried out a recipe for an AF mojito (with ginger ale, apple juice, mint and lime) and it's very drinkable with a healthy sort of 'kick' feeling to it.


    So onwards and ... sideways?!


    xx
  • maman
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    Lotstogain wrote: »
    I have a slight confession - after deciding to go AF I slipped up on Friday night and had 3 G and Ts. I have been AF free again since then but am tempted tonight if the weather holds.
    xx


    If you set a target of 21 for the month then you must have planned some drinking days. Personally I find it easier to stay in control if I choose the drinking days in advance (like weekends or meals out with friends) but if you want to use them up when the fancy takes you then why not? I reckon you have about 5 left before the end of the month.


    Personally I think I'd prefer to look forward to a drink after the appraisal but it's your choice.
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