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Ex boyfriend owes me money
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Even if he has no money now, he is young and life is long..... especially when you have a CCJ and one day he wants to get a mortgage......
The OP did say that £480 is not a lot of money to her ex, so why are people assuming he doesn't have the money? Sounds more like a case of doesn't want to pay rather than can't pay.Make £2025 in 2025
Prolific £229.82, Octopoints £4.27, Topcashback £290.85, Tesco Clubcard challenges £60, Misc Sales £321, Airtime £10.
Total £915.94/£2025 45.2%
Make £2024 in 2024
Prolific £907.37, Chase Intt £59.97, Chase roundup int £3.55, Chase CB £122.88, Roadkill £1.30, Octopus referral reward £50, Octopoints £70.46, Topcashback £112.03, Shopmium referral £3, Iceland bonus £4, Ipsos survey £20, Misc Sales £55.44Total £1410/£2024 70%Make £2023 in 2023 Total: £2606.33/£2023 128.8%0 -
The first question is: can he afford to pay? If he can, send a LBA giving him 14 days to pay, otherwise you'll take the case to court where he'll then be responsible for court costs too.
If he has no money, forget it and move on, or if you got on well with his parents, speak to them!
From what I gather he's on about 2k a month, not sure if thats before or after tax.People don't know what they want until you show them.0
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