Nice People Thread Number 10 -the official residence of Nice People

Doozergirl

Wishing you all an amazing 2014.

Raised glasses to friends and a special toast to our absent friends.

See you around lunchtime

zagubov

Wishing everybody a brilliant 2014.
And most importantly of all, excellent news viva!:j:j:j:j:j

Nikkster

Wishing all Nice friends past, present and future a very healthy, wealthy and happy 2014. All my love xxx

PasturesNew

All the dirty stop outs are rolling in now, their pants in their coat pocket no doubt....


deldel

Doozergirl

Good morning

Viva, that is the best news to ensure this year gets off on the right foot, well done.

tomterm8

Am thinking that the new really cheap virgin vm575 phone I bought (because of the unlimited free landline minutes you get if you top it up once a month) is actually expensive at half the price because it is a pile of...

Oh, yeah, have a happy new year everyone!

I think the sheep have survived the firework onslaught, which went ahead this year despite the weather.

Generali

I love New Year's Day: everyone is so terrified of getting done by the Police for driving whilst drunk from the night before* that the roads are dead. I took The Boy out for a bike ride which was great.

On a sadder note it looks like Mrs Generali's depression is back in a nasty way. It means I get to be a 'carer' only without any recognition or money or support or help. Oh and I'll have to do more with the kids. And when she's sick she can't bear to live in a tidy house so even if I do manage to get the place sorted she'll trash it within 12 hours. Joy.

That may come across as selfish and I do feel for her but f it. I'm in for a horrible 2014 I suspect.






*We have Random Breath Testing for drugs and alcohol over here: they set up what is effectively a road block and stop everyone.

tomterm8

My experience of living with someone with depression is that it sucks, and it's pretty easy to end up depressed yourself. It's actually catching. So take care of yourself.

lostinrates

Oh gen.


Will she /does she take medication/ get other help? I'm sorry for you all having to suffer this. I hope she gets well soon. It might not last long. You both have been through the mill you know, over the years.

Kids ok?

Doozergirl

Oh dear, Gen, I'm not sure what to say, except that I understand and feel for you. I'm guilty of the messy house thing, can't explain it, hate it, especially as it's self sabotage.

It's worth keeping looking for a solution. It's not hopeless. Is there something that triggers it?