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Official Trying to Conceive - Thread 10

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  • LailaP_2
    LailaP_2 Posts: 310 Forumite
    I am sorry that everyone seems to be having such a rubbish time at the moment. Hopefully next week will bring a bit more luck for everyone xx
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Code it wasn't the most fun tbh, I hoped it would be quick but once the canular was in I thought it would be a long night.i really hope things improve for everyone soon.
  • Hi ladies.

    I last posted on thread 9 back in April. Since then nothing has changed :(

    To give a bit of background, I came off the pill last November and since then have had four AFs. Longest cycle 87 days... Am now on day 60- something of this cycle and BFN when I tested on Wednesday. Cycles were a textbook 28 days before the pill. I HATE the pill and will never ever put that poison in my body again.

    Am thinking of booking a drs app as it's nearly been a year of trying. When I last went back in April they just told me to wait, that my cycles might take a year to go back to normal. Well it's been a year and they're still not.

    Me and OH got married last month and everyone keeps asking when we're going to start trying, and I say 'oh, maybe next year' and truth is it's been a year already and not even a sniff. Every time I get a BFN I almost break down and I'm so scared this will never happen for us. Even oh is starting to ask why it might be taking so long. I feel broken.
  • Sapphire. wrote: »
    Hi ladies.

    I last posted on thread 9 back in April. Since then nothing has changed :(

    To give a bit of background, I came off the pill last November and since then have had four AFs. Longest cycle 87 days... Am now on day 60- something of this cycle and BFN when I tested on Wednesday. Cycles were a textbook 28 days before the pill. I HATE the pill and will never ever put that poison in my body again.

    Am thinking of booking a drs app as it's nearly been a year of trying. When I last went back in April they just told me to wait, that my cycles might take a year to go back to normal. Well it's been a year and they're still not.

    Me and OH got married last month and everyone keeps asking when we're going to start trying, and I say 'oh, maybe next year' and truth is it's been a year already and not even a sniff. Every time I get a BFN I almost break down and I'm so scared this will never happen for us. Even oh is starting to ask why it might be taking so long. I feel broken.

    ((hugs)) I know how u feel.... its so hard when u really feel you are getting nowhere! :(
    Baldrick, does it have to be this way? Our valued friendship ending with me cutting you up into strips and telling the prince that you walked over a very sharp cattle grid in an extremely heavy hat?
  • Mrs_T_M
    Mrs_T_M Posts: 2,039 Forumite
    Just a happy update: Back from the doctor's office. External and internal exam found that cervix is closed tightly and everything seems to have sorted itself. Can't get a scan yet, because they won't be able to find it (it's tiny, I'm not), but the doctor did say that I could request an early scan due to this once I've had my appointment with the midwife.

    I hate leaving you again, but I couldn't go without giving an update. I'm going to keep stalking this thread, and I really do hope everyone on here gets their bfp's soon!
    Baby Dale
    26th January 2014 - Forever in our hearts
    :A
    Eli Gabriel 19th February 2015
    :j
  • Really pleased for you Mrs TM. Was it the walk in centre you went to? Hope everything goes ok when you have your scan and here's to a healthy 9 months xxx
  • Mrs_T_M
    Mrs_T_M Posts: 2,039 Forumite
    Yep. The walk-in centre is where I'm registered, and they made me an appointment so I wouldn't need to wait so long. It was actually busier than I thought a Sunday night would be! We ended up getting a taxi down there, walking to the Boots down on Wessex street, then walking down St. Stephens and getting a bit more cash and another taxi home. I still don't like taxi's, but it was better than walking a mile and a half in a skirt in that wind!
    Baby Dale
    26th January 2014 - Forever in our hearts
    :A
    Eli Gabriel 19th February 2015
    :j
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Mrs tm so pleased to hear your news,hope all stays well for you.

    Sapphire hugs to you.
  • Mrs_T_M wrote: »
    Yep. The walk-in centre is where I'm registered, and they made me an appointment so I wouldn't need to wait so long. It was actually busier than I thought a Sunday night would be! We ended up getting a taxi down there, walking to the Boots down on Wessex street, then walking down St. Stephens and getting a bit more cash and another taxi home. I still don't like taxi's, but it was better than walking a mile and a half in a skirt in that wind!

    It's not one of the surgeries I work from but have been there once myself on New Year's Day and they were good then, really glad they were helpful. Blimey you did a fair bit of walking, especially in this weather. My parents were in the city yesterday and said it was really busy in general.
  • vesper
    vesper Posts: 941 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    oh that's the best news Mrs T M
    Remember never judge someone that makes a mistake, because in six months time it may be you that makes the next mistake.
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