Official Trying to Conceive - Thread 10

Disney_Pluto

The last couple of months I have been putting off applying for jobs more as just incase I get pregnant I wouldn't want to start a job like that but now I just figure why put things on hold, it could take ages yet. Trying to take the life's to short approach.

Vesper I love Minis I used to have one but again wasn't practical for my job. I'm very jealous! I was away this year for the car show by us but would love to go next year.

Welcome cookiee it takes a while but you will soon get the hang of it. Take a look at the front page for help. Hope your stay is short.

ThinkPink

Nothing to report here- no more twinges so I have a feeling af isnt going to appear any time soon:( .

Welcome Cookiee.

I know Im new to ttc but I am trying to get a balance of not putting my life on hold but also do keep bearing in mind I dont want to be letting people down if I am lucky enough to conceive any time soon, so, so far I have booked tickets to see something in May (with the conclusion I can always be designated driver if Im lucky), and my sister has booked tickets for a show next October so we will just have to see how things go.

Thanks for doing the lists Code.

Cookiee

Hi Code thanks for the lovely welcome

Cookiee TTC#1 since Oct 13.

I will have a look through the link and get caught up.

I have not had an AF (look using my 1st abrev :T) for 9 yrs so no a scoobie how long they last. My last one was for 6 weeks:eek:

If anyone knows how I can work it out I would be grateful. I am actually having my first af (2nd day) so does this make me CD2 ?

Sorry I will be a pain in the butt for a few weeks whilst I get use to all of this

codemonkey

Cookiee wrote: »

Hi Code thanks for the lovely welcome

Cookiee TTC#1 since Oct 13.

I will have a look through the link and get caught up.

I have not had an AF (look using my 1st abrev :T) for 9 yrs so no a scoobie how long they last. My last one was for 6 weeks:eek:

If anyone knows how I can work it out I would be grateful. I am actually having my first af (2nd day) so does this make me CD2 ?

Sorry I will be a pain in the butt for a few weeks whilst I get use to all of this

Don't worry. We were all where you are once. CD1 is the first day of full flow of your period so you would be CD2 today.

ClareBear2013

It's upsetting when not a single person responds to your post when you are clearly in need of some support! I remember why I stopped coming on here now but I really was quite upset and thought I may get a little support or advice here . This used to be a welcoming supportive group.

You can remove me from the lists I won't be back this journey is hard enough without dealing with being ignored online as well

ClareBear2013

It's upsetting when not a single person responds to your post when you are clearly in need of some support! I remember why I stopped coming on here now but I really was quite upset and thought I may get a little support or advice here . This used to be a welcoming supportive group clearly not anymore!

You can remove me from the lists I won't be back this journey is hard enough without dealing with being ignored online as well

codemonkey

ClareBear2013 wrote: »

It's upsetting when not a single person responds to your post when you are clearly in need of some support! I remember why I stopped coming on here now but I really was quite upset and thought I may get a little support or advice here . This used to be a welcoming supportive group.

You can remove me from the lists I won't be back this journey is hard enough without dealing with being ignored online as well

Hey Clare. Sorry if I ignored your post. I didn't see it.

I'll remove you from the lists if that's what you want, but we really didn't mean to ignore or exclude you. I remember feeling the same way when I first joined and it was rubbish.

codemonkey

ClareBear2013 wrote: »

Oh I found you.....

Sorry I've not been on here for ages hope you all ok. I could really do with your thoughts on ttc issues I have no one to talk to in real life people with kids that have never had to try do not understand!

Anyway my periods came back after illness / medication but have been bit erratic and long cycles 34 24 39 27 42 47 the last one was quite long and I had various symptoms of pg especially sore bbs but then I came on but sore bbs stayed throughout and after af finished I have done 3 tests including after af all negative bbs still persisted. Yesdy I started pink spotting but only when I weed ?? Had dull ache in abdomen too thought it could be ov time as also saw a lot of stretchy egg white

Today I seem to have full blown period but is clotty and bbs are no longer sore, I'm a bit concerned as I'm only on cd23 and what I'm seeing and feeling is similar to when I mc. Is it possible I'm mc without it showing in a test

I'm so confused and fed up

Ok, I actually don't know the answer to your question. It's unlikely you were having a mc if you didn't get a positive pregnancy test. Perhaps it was a very early chemical pregnancy and your HCG just didn't get high enough to register, or perhaps it was just a dodgy cycle which we all get from time to time.

I wish there was some way to know for sure what our bodies were doing. Like maybe our wee could change colour or something.

ThinkPink

ClareBear2013 wrote: »

It's upsetting when not a single person responds to your post when you are clearly in need of some support! I remember why I stopped coming on here now but I really was quite upset and thought I may get a little support or advice here . This used to be a welcoming supportive group clearly not anymore!

You can remove me from the lists I won't be back this journey is hard enough without dealing with being ignored online as well

Hi Clarebear

Sorry to hear that you felt excluded, Im sure no one intentionally meant to. I didnt reply as Im new to TTC, and still awaiting my first proper af so couldnt offer advice to your question.

glimmerofhope

Clarebear
sometimes the board moves quickly and someone who could help doesn't get to see your post.
maybe you could copy it and repost so we could take a look
glimmer x