Official Trying to Conceive - Thread 10

tinkwings

Hi All Sorry I have been MIA been a really bad time for me and have my grey cloud back it is the year anniversary of our last MC when I nearly lost my fight with life . I have been hit heard by this anniversary and feel totally knocked for 6 by it.... I have seen my GP & she has agreed to refer me to a Fertility Doctor as she said putting me on anti depressants wouldn't cure my reason for being so upset I never in a million years expected her to give me that option.... So I have had the first lot of bloods & swabs done next week is my 21 day bloods....

Love you lots xxxxxxxxx Tink xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

tinkwings

sorry I don't know why it posted twice xx

wangdoodle

Hugs to you tinkwings sorry to hear you've been having such a bad time, sounds like you've been through a lot.

Glad to hear you're enjoying c25k catloverbex I did it about 6 years ago and I went in to run a couple of marathons. Nowadays I just run for fun, no scary long distances! Well, not this week cause I'm injured, but usually I enjoy it

WD x

AquamarineMonkey

My AF has been really 'strange' this time- my first one since stopping the minipill. I used to be really heavy and have pain so terrible that I had to spend the entire time on painkillers, doing a countdown until I could take the next dose.
This time I've only had to take painkillers on one occasion and I probably could have coped without them, also AF has been really light when usually it's heavy. I then got myself excited and thought maybe it was an implantation bleed, so I did another test, but of course I got a BFN.

I'm surprised OH is still around to keep trying to conceive, because I was so horrible to him when AF arrived. I screamed at him that he was useless and the reason I wasn't pregnant was because his 'little swimmers' were rubbish and not doing their job properly.

I've been feeling really emotional since starting TTC, I was even crying at X Factor - before the contestants had been told yes or no!

Oh well, only a few more days and then we can start trying again!

Disney_Pluto

Hugs Tinkwings. Hope your ok?!

Awful day at work for me, finished 4 hours late. Very tired now. No other news from me.

Part_Mouse

Tink really sorry to hear you've been struggling. Good though to have an understanding dr.

catloverbex

Tink - massive hugs! Sorry you have been feeling so down xxxx but yay for your GP referring you! :T Why did you think they wouldn't refer you? Because it is not your first? xxxx

Lara44

Big hugs Tink, sorry to hear about your grey cloud, and sad anniversary. You've been through such a lot and I hope the Dr can help xx

neon_dannii

AquamarineMonkey wrote: »

My AF has been really 'strange' this time- my first one since stopping the minipill. I used to be really heavy and have pain so terrible that I had to spend the entire time on painkillers, doing a countdown until I could take the next dose.
This time I've only had to take painkillers on one occasion and I probably could have coped without them, also AF has been really light when usually it's heavy. I then got myself excited and thought maybe it was an implantation bleed, so I did another test, but of course I got a BFN.

I'm surprised OH is still around to keep trying to conceive, because I was so horrible to him when AF arrived. I screamed at him that he was useless and the reason I wasn't pregnant was because his 'little swimmers' were rubbish and not doing their job properly.

I've been feeling really emotional since starting TTC, I was even crying at X Factor - before the contestants had been told yes or no!

Oh well, only a few more days and then we can start trying again!

Contraception can do funny things to your cycles, so the odd AF is very normal. And it can take up to a year+ to conceive so again it's normal for it not to happen first time for everyone.

Mrs_T_M

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