our forever patch challenge

Jessy103

I've ended up telling quite a few people. There seemed to be a misconception that because we live in a small one bedroom bungalow and we were quite frugal, that we must have been poor, but in reality we've worked really hard and paid off a 25 year mortgage in 6.5 years and all the money from our little bungalow is now going to be the deposit for a 3 bedroom house that hopefully we're moving into next week. We shall be paying the mortgage for that off early as well!

If people resent you for paying it off early and being mortgage free when they're not, that's their problem. They could do it as well if they wanted to, but they don't and that is their choice. I think you should be proud of what you've accomplished!

Also, an American money advisor that I listen to always says 'You live like no one else now, so that you can live and give like no one else later' I think that's really important to remember when you've worked so hard and been sensible with your money.

sammy70

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Sounds like you are exactly like us, we paid off a humble abode really quickly, people where we used to work used to assume we were poor, we drove an old car and didnt go on fancy holidays etc.

When we bought this place people were quite weird about it, i think they couldnt work out how we had done it.

Im a massive fan of the baby steps system, we still follow this, its should be taught in schools imho Hope your house move went well x

Jessy103

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Move went very well, thank you and we're loving our new house!

Definitely had the same experience, people are now really shocked we're in such a larger house. I'm sure they think we must have won the lottery as opposed to working hard and living frugally 😂

Completely agree about the baby steps method being taught in schools. I love being a weirdo 🤣

beanielou

Baby steps should be taught in schools along with keep plodding! Not forgetting financial education and responsibility.

sammy70

Busy few days with work and aged parents needs, alongside pets!

The weather is looking lovely for the next week at last!

We are getting used to the mortgage free life, and ive got a new savings challenge starting May 1st. Basically we have LOADS of work required on this property, the plan is to save and complete one expensive major task every other year. I will do a break down of figures on the 1st, i love a challenge!

MIL is on end of life care, so we darent plan any big jobs for this year incase we need to deal with her passing, she has advanced alzheimers and its so sad to see her as she is now. So we will start saving May, with a view to starting the first job spring 2027.

Off to muck out chunky horse now, and get ready to open my little cafe, fingers crossed for a busy day ..

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Jessy103

Sorry to hear about MIL x

Please give chunky horse a pat from me. Been seeing a lot horsey posts on faceache and it's making me want to start riding again, after 20 some odd years!