Lenny v the girls (+ Z, lmw and James) challenge lose the fat and the debt

ZTD

postingalwaysposting wrote: »

this is all making me feel worse and as if i am doing something wrong

You are not doing anything wrong. But what I want to see from you is positive thinking.

No matter what the outcome - this is a good thing for you. He has been a bad thing for you especially in terms of your self-confidence, and now he is going away.

postingalwaysposting wrote: »

if i fail i will have to find another instructor and go through all the 'stuff' i have had to cope with before... nothing new there :rolleyes:

Don't prejudge things - positive thinking remember.

Snaggles

Awwww Pap, sorry, didn't mean to make things worse....it's just that you seem so low on self esteem sometimes, that we want to make you see that all the bad stuff isn't your fault, and you are so much tougher, nicer, prettier and more capable than you give yourself credit for.

But if it just makes you feel worse, it's okay, you can tell us to back off.

moonlightpjs

Toto wrote: »

Sounds like the same thing I had weller a couple of weeks ago, I put it down to either the pain pills (although Z never complains of melon boobs ) or some tummy bug. Are you due though? because if you are that could explain all of the symptoms, PMS. If not, the test won't work, so you could be. Still no sign of AF here... these tests do work don't they:eek:

I don't know - I had one "show" once last week and thats been it - never sure when my periods are due - they've been all over the place since I had Mollie - they removed an ovary (sp?) because it was engulfed with a cyst - not sure if thats anything to do with it. My boobs are size DD (I woke up one day when I was 14 and there they were - massive boobies and I was thin then) anyway so always feel big. I must admit, when it was mentioned on here, i kind of got all excited but I do know its not whats best for us right now though I would dearly like another. We'll wait and see I suppose, whats meant to be will be and all that.

Did you buy a double pack Toto, if so I'd maybe try again

moonlightpjs

PAP - I have no wise words but just wanted to offer my love and support
:grouphug:

postingalwaysposting

i am me i put myself down, i dont expect great things of myself thats me... if i am ready for the worse (ie failing my test) then it wont be so bad to deal with... my self confidance is no where thats me i cant change it... i really wish i was that person who could hold there head up but i am not... all the positive thinking in the world wont help me pass my test i tryed positive thinking throughout my life... bad things still happended what will change now?

ZTD

postingalwaysposting wrote: »

i am me i put myself down, i dont expect great things of myself thats me... if i am ready for the worse (ie failing my test) then it wont be so bad to deal with... my self confidance is no where thats me i cant change it... i really wish i was that person who could hold there head up but i am not... all the positive thinking in the world wont help me pass my test i tryed positive thinking throughout my life... bad things still happended what will change now?

Positive thinking doesn't stop the bad things from happening - but negative thinking does stop the good things from happening.

Think positively - give yourself the chance for the good things to happen. You know you're worth it.

Toto

Ahh but Pap hon, if you believe in yourself, when the bad things happen you ignore them, because a) you know you'll get there in the end and b) because it must be someone elses fault:D

postingalwaysposting

thanks all... have loads of things floating around my head now... really stuck but i suppose i cant do anything till i take my test so i shall wait till that day :rolleyes:

eats ~
2 rolls with jam, quiche, peach and crackers

sammy115

postingalwaysposting wrote: »

:rolleyes:

eats ~
2 rolls with jam, quiche, peach and crackers

All on the same roll :rotfl: :rotfl:

postingalwaysposting

sammy115 wrote: »

All on the same roll :rotfl: :rotfl:

:rotfl:that would be a nice combination :rolleyes: but alas no... seperately hun :rotfl: